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A pretty weird encounter

Cutieboy — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 01:31:17 GMT

A few days ago, I was walking with my brother to a 7-11 type place. It's in my vacation home's area. As we walk back, a guy on his bike past by me and he said "hey hot stuff!" He went by too fast and I knew that the guy was possibly gay. I didn't get a real good look at him. I remember that he was a bit muscular and he had bleach blond hair. I saw him at that 7-11 type place the next day. It looked like he was gay. He was not my type at all. I just wonder why he called me "hot stuff"... oh well! I am flattered by it.

Times Square

Cutieboy — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:03:25 GMT

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Times Square is my favorite place in New York City. I love those big lights. The Great White Way is such an awesome place. I was there a year ago. I went to a concert there. It was pretty damn cool.

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Here's Times Square at night back then.

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make friend

jeanboy — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 15:04:01 GMT

Hi, i'm single man from Vietnam, nice to meet you. Hope a good relationship in the future!

GLP Circa October Drinks Party

richardhenley778 — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 12:28:54 GMT

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Hello, new from WA

aaron_1991 — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 08:34:49 GMT

Hey guys. Looks like a neat forum, decided to join and say hello.

I get told a lot "Your the straightest gay guy I know." I'm not very typical, country music, really into my truck, love cars, love tools, just...a regular guy I guess.

I've been looking for the same, but...never find any guys like me, I love me some country boys, manly men.

I'm 19, starting school for Diesel Tech soon, just moved out on my own for the first time, things are starting to come together. Well, just saying hello.

I was going to post pics, but...this site has rules with 20 posts first? LAME.

Overheard my mom's reaction to a friend coming out....

SrChulo — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 04:59:48 GMT

Well, my mom met with an old friend of ours the other day. The woman really confided in my mother during dinner (as people tend to do, she's an amazing person) and told her that her son (my old child-hood friend) is gay.

My mom relayed this info to me yesterday. I am not out to her, and the biggest reason has been because I have (had?) no clue how she would take it. She is religious, conservative, the works. We have an amazing relationship. Still, I was worried that she might throw me out or something.

Well, as my mom broke the "news" about this kid, I realized that it this boy is probably the first gay person that she met as a straight person. Meaning, the first person that she found out is GAYYY. So her reaction was very new to me, we have never discussed 'coming out' or anything, because there was no reason to. We don't have gay friends.

So I had to play along like "oh, really? he's gay?" (even though it was already clear as day from his facebook. :p) I didn't do any award-winning acting.

Later I heard her talking to my aunt on the phone about this whole ordeal. That's when her real feelings came out. She said stuff like:

"I keep thinking about this"
"It seemed like I was more concerned about it than Mary Jo was! (the boy's mom)"
"I asked her, 'how do you deal with that?' Obviously you still LOVE them.... of course.. you would never disown them."
"I really don't know how I would react.. i just really don't know. It must be so hard to come to terms with that" (<--- sounded completely hypothetical)
"I think i'd push them to try dating more.... because I wouldn't want to accept it."

If it sounds like she has a clue about me--- I WISH!!! She still asks me to tell her about the girls I like (I've never had a girlfriend, but the small 'flings' i did have she brings up often). I consistently deny that I am interested in anyone in particular

So, there was some good and bad in what I overheard. My biggest fear was that she'd completely disown me and never want to talk to me again. I'm glad that's not the reality. However, it's obvious that this is COMPLETELY new to her. She has never witnessed anyone coming out in her life it seems. So I'm not sure right now is the best time to tell her. I am thinking of telling my sister this week though, which should go well I think. I can get her opinion on telling our parents.

Another factor in telling her is that I am moving back to spain for another year in 3 weeks. I have a boyfriend there. I'm not sure I should tell her, then just fly off for a full school year. Right? What do you guys think?

Affection in an Open Relationship

pathos — Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:13:43 GMT

I met someone 10 months ago. We fell madly in love. He wants an open relationship. I guess I understand that most gay men want an open relationship - its either acknowledged or it happens. I'm ok with the one night stands but my lover has 2 guys he's known for a long time and wants to continue seeing. They live abroad and visit about once a year. One guy is here now. The 3 way sex is OK. But the difficulty I am having at the moment was the 3 of us napping and waking up to find him holding the other guy in a manner that I so love to be held. He tells me he loves me 5 times a day (more on week-ends) and says I can look at the email exchange with the others and I'll see he's never told them he loves them. Yet seeing him snuggled with the other guy is a visual I'm having trouble erasing from my mind. My friends are supportive yet neither of them would accept an open relationship or the occasional "menage a trois". And you say....

Happy Birthday Genersis

Botty — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 23:01:15 GMT

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 8th September 2010:

-Genersis (born in 1991, Age: 19)

Happy Birthday!

I like the smell of gasoline

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 22:18:50 GMT

I don't know why... but I do like the smell of it. It's weird, but hey whatever! Too bad it can kill ya if you smell it a lot!

An LGBT Religion

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:37:13 GMT

What if there was a religion for everyone in the LGBT community? Would it work out? Do you think it would be the best religion? What would it be called?

I can't see it happening. If there was one, I think that religion would get a lot of heat from other religions and it wouldn't be really cool. I can't see it working out at all. I dunno, it would be totally disastrous. The best religion? Nah, I don't think so. Maybe... just maybe. I dunno what it would be called. LGBTism? I have no idear.

What's your favorite fast food joint?

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:29:44 GMT

This one is quite straight forward.

Yeah, I went with KFC. KFC rocks!

Should guys paint their toenails?

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:27:51 GMT

I went with yes! I think it's cute and it's like wow... a guy is really open, new, daring and going where no man has gone before! I read one case of a straight man doing this, yes indeed! Wow, yeah. I know this a really odd poll. It's a good one though.

Ford or Chevy

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 21:25:30 GMT

Which one do you like more? Ford or Chevy?

I went with Chevy. The Corvette, the Bel Air, the Monte Carlo, the Camaro, the El Camino, Suburban... yeah, 'nuff said.

Ford does have the T-Bird, Mustang, Edge, Explorer, Expedition, Excursion and Shelby Cobra.

Ah well... more of a Chevy person.

Beverly Hills 90210

Cutieboy — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:58:28 GMT

Anyone like this show? My brother absolutely loves this show. He has been watching it since he was a little kid (now he's 22).

I'm thinking about getting into it. I wanna borrow my brother's 1st season DVD set of that show.

in your opinion

codis — Tue, 07 Sep 2010 20:49:51 GMT

what is the # 1 thing a guy can do to make himself look smoking hot and get noticed?