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Wolfe. · 01-06-09

...Ok people. If you'd be kind enough...
I really need some help/advice/anything really!

I'm 18, skinny, new onto the gay clubbing scene...
I guess I fall under the 'Punk' stereotype, facial piercings & edgy coloured hair etc...
(Not that it really matters) But oh well, my problem is...

I'm extremely attracted to older, hairy, beefy men... pierced? skinhead? They're all bonuses :)
But you know, a real grrrr kinda thing going on. By "beefy" I don't mean overweight.
Just, not skinny. Chunkier really, whether it be muscle or not.

And I'm not AT ALL fussed on the whole 'straight acting' thing, he can be a fairy bear for all I care hehe

But yeah, I'm not attracted to young, 'twink' guys my age in the slightest, kinda grosses me out as far as sexual attraction goes... And I'm starting to think that the type of guys I'm interested in would only go for men their type. Beefier and all grrrrr. And wouldn't look twice at someone like me... Is that true?

Help/advice on this would be MEGA appreciated

x x x

MichaelBKK · 01-06-09

Hi Wolfe,

Haven't you ever heard the expression "opposites attract"? Well, it's true. I think I fall in the general category of what you're attracted to, and as for me, nothing grosses me out more than a hairy body. I simply adore young smooth guys. Can't take my eyes off them sometimes.

I'm not hitting on you or anything, I just want to say don't worry, there's plenty of big hairy guys who will be attracted to you. You just have to get yourself out there, and perhaps be patient.

Iloveallasians · 01-06-09

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Originally Posted by MichaelBKK

I simply adore young smooth guys.

Michael, you ever date an Asian guy? They don't come any smoother than that!
As far as race goes, East Asians are less hairy and age better!

marshlander · 01-06-09

Wolfe, I'm surprised that you feel this way. We seem to hear more about young handsome men like yourself having to fight off the hordes of older men. I'm sure you won't have too much trouble. Just be careful, eh?

MichaelBKK · 01-06-09

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Originally Posted by Iloveallasians

Michael, you ever date an Asian guy? They don't come any smoother than that!
As far as race goes, East Asians are less hairy and age better!

If you check my profile, you'll see I live in Bangkok. So, yes, I've dated - and lived with - my fair share of Asians. Unfortunately, the care and feeding of Thai guys is more complicated than it looks, which is why I'm single.

marshlander · 01-06-09

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Originally Posted by MichaelBKK

... Unfortunately, the care and feeding of Thai guys is more complicated than it looks, which is why I'm single.

Notwithstanding the unusual number of racial stereotypes we seem to have encountered on GaySpeak over the past couple of days this comment must surely be worth a new thread ...

sox-and-the-city · 01-06-09

Going back to the original post, seriously love, HOW new on the scene are you??

Older men PREY on the young ones, ones you claim to be repulsed by. I think you should cherish the fact that your target market will be desperate for you. Your stock is up

07-06-09

Throughout my gay life I have seen younger men go for older men, indeed when I was 17/18 I had a "Sugar Daddy"

I don't see anything wrong with it as it happens in all societies.

I do agree with Marshy though, be careful, I think some of the "older" men on today's scene will look at you as just another prize.

Have fun and above all be safe, Be happy and enjoy your life.......

I love this You Tube clip....

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marshlander · 08-06-09

Thanks, Star, that was very powerful ... just please don't tell anyone I shed a little tear to the Rubettes

Lightshade · 09-06-09

Oh the video was great. And so sad, too

Motor_Head · 12-06-09

No. I have alot of gay friends like that as you said are beefy and bear like, i am too lol. But they actually like guys like you.

First post! YERRRR

vk luis · 19-06-09

have some confidence man. Im not attracted to any guys under 29, im a 'twink', i still hook up with nice older muscly guys

rock your shit and get yourself some old cock. Theres plenty of guys like that who are into young boys. Iv been on webcam with so many daddies from england, find that shit homie

cybermalemk · 27-06-09

Wolfe? Looking at your picture on here (avatar) I reckon you are going to be ok. I'm sure the type of person you are looking for will definately want to know you.

Don't give up ;)

Jake · 29-06-09

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Originally Posted by vk luis

have some confidence man. Im not attracted to any guys under 29, im a 'twink', i still hook up with nice older muscly guys

rock your shit and get yourself some old cock. Theres plenty of guys like that who are into young boys. Iv been on webcam with so many daddies from england, find that shit homie

The grammar and vulgarity made me cringe...

Phantom68 · 23-08-09

I love the AIDES video, no matter how many times I watch it.
Wolfe, I agree with many of the people here. Don;t worry about the types of person you like, the look and the age. Just be safe and enjoy it.
Ciao :)

vk luis · 27-08-09

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Originally Posted by Jake

The grammar and vulgarity made me cringe...

i would tell you to suck a dick but you would like that

fuck fuck fuckity fuck

CurtCB · 29-08-09

Quote:

Originally Posted by vk luis

have some confidence man. Im not attracted to any guys under 29, im a 'twink', i still hook up with nice older muscly guys

rock your shit and get yourself some old cock. Theres plenty of guys like that who are into young boys. Iv been on webcam with so many daddies from england, find that shit homie

let's see, a childish, vulgar, pothead. That's quite a catch. Yeah, I am sure guys are lining up for a shot at you.

sox-and-the-city · 29-08-09

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Originally Posted by CurtCB

let's see, a childish, vulgar, pothead. That's quite a catch. Yeah, I am sure guys are lining up for a shot at you.

Amen to that, sista

vk luis · 30-08-09

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Originally Posted by CurtCB

let's see, a childish, vulgar, pothead. That's quite a catch. Yeah, I am sure guys are lining up for a shot at you.

sorry im not a nice little queen on forums.

in real life you would be asking to suck my dick and i would be turning you down

CurtCB · 30-08-09

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Originally Posted by vk luis

sorry im not a nice little queen on forums.

in real life you would be asking to suck my dick and i would be turning you down

There is this homeless guy who hangs out in front of the gay pool hall I go to. He barks at the traffic driving by. If he turns me down, I will give you a call.
As for not being a nice queen on forums, yeah you are such a stud. I bet if I waved 2000 pesos and a pound of pot in your face, you would blow my dog.

01-06-09	#1 (permalink)
Wolfe. First Time Poster Join Date: Jun 2009 Single Gay Man in Kent (UK - England) Age: 18 (Starsign: Aries) Posts: 1 Gallery photos (0) My Mood:	Twink! Twink! Twink! Grrrrrr. ...Ok people. If you'd be kind enough... I really need some help/advice/anything really! I'm 18, skinny, new onto the gay clubbing scene... I guess I fall under the 'Punk' stereotype, facial piercings & edgy coloured hair etc... (Not that it really matters) But oh well, my problem is... I'm extremely attracted to older, hairy, beefy men... pierced? skinhead? They're all bonuses :) But you know, a real grrrr kinda thing going on. By "beefy" I don't mean overweight. Just, not skinny. Chunkier really, whether it be muscle or not. And I'm not AT ALL fussed on the whole 'straight acting' thing, he can be a fairy bear for all I care hehe But yeah, I'm not attracted to young, 'twink' guys my age in the slightest, kinda grosses me out as far as sexual attraction goes... And I'm starting to think that the type of guys I'm interested in would only go for men their type. Beefier and all grrrrr. And wouldn't look twice at someone like me... Is that true? Help/advice on this would be MEGA appreciated x x x Last edited by Wolfe. : 01-06-09 at 05:23 am.

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marshlander On here too often Join Date: Jan 2008 Gay Man in a Monogamous Gay Relationship in The Fens or the Alps, what day is it? (UK - England) Age: 54 (Starsign: Taurus) Posts: 4,761 Gallery photos (0)	Wolfe, I'm surprised that you feel this way. We seem to hear more about young handsome men like yourself having to fight off the hordes of older men. I'm sure you won't have too much trouble. Just be careful, eh? Last edited by marshlander : 29-08-09 at 05:57 pm.

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sox-and-the-city Gettin' Soxy with it Join Date: Jul 2008 Single Gay Man in Vienna (Austria) Age: 19 (Starsign: Aries) Posts: 1,581 Gallery photos (7) My Mood:	Going back to the original post, seriously love, HOW new on the scene are you?? Older men PREY on the young ones, ones you claim to be repulsed by. I think you should cherish the fact that your target market will be desperate for you. Your stock is up __________________ No importa que larga u oscura la noche, siempre llega el amanecer. Pues, eso es lo que dicen... Hay que esperar. 'Buscar el amor es como alzar la mano para coger una estrella.' - Benito Perez Gald�s Cha deoch-sl�int, i gun a tr�ghadh. - Gaelic Proverb Credo nella fedelt�, ma non sono practicante...

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01-06-09	#2 (permalink)
MichaelBKK Newbie Join Date: Jun 2009 Single Gay Man in Bangkok (Thailand) Age: 51 (Starsign: Scorpio) Posts: 2 Gallery photos (0)	Hi Wolfe, Haven't you ever heard the expression "opposites attract"? Well, it's true. I think I fall in the general category of what you're attracted to, and as for me, nothing grosses me out more than a hairy body. I simply adore young smooth guys. Can't take my eyes off them sometimes. I'm not hitting on you or anything, I just want to say don't worry, there's plenty of big hairy guys who will be attracted to you. You just have to get yourself out there, and perhaps be patient.

08-06-09	#9 (permalink)
marshlander On here too often Join Date: Jan 2008 Gay Man in a Monogamous Gay Relationship in The Fens or the Alps, what day is it? (UK - England) Age: 54 (Starsign: Taurus) Posts: 4,761 Gallery photos (0)	Thanks, Star, that was very powerful ... just please don't tell anyone I shed a little tear to the Rubettes

12-06-09	#11 (permalink)
Motor_Head First Time Poster Join Date: Jun 2009 Single Gay Man in Dublin (Ireland) Age: 17 (Starsign: Aquarius) Posts: 1 Gallery photos (0)	No. I have alot of gay friends like that as you said are beefy and bear like, i am too lol. But they actually like guys like you. First post! YERRRR

19-06-09	#12 (permalink)
vk luis Veteran Join Date: Apr 2009 Single Bi Man in mexico city (Mexico) Age: 19 (Starsign: Capricorn) Posts: 35 Gallery photos (0)	have some confidence man. Im not attracted to any guys under 29, im a 'twink', i still hook up with nice older muscly guys rock your shit and get yourself some old cock. Theres plenty of guys like that who are into young boys. Iv been on webcam with so many daddies from england, find that shit homie

27-06-09	#13 (permalink)
cybermalemk Veteran Join Date: Jun 2009 Gay Male Couple in Milton Keynes (UK - England) Age: 37 (Starsign: Pisces) Posts: 24 Gallery photos (0) My Mood:	Wolfe? Looking at your picture on here (avatar) I reckon you are going to be ok. I'm sure the type of person you are looking for will definately want to know you. Don't give up ;)

23-08-09	#15 (permalink)
Phantom68 Veteran Join Date: Apr 2009 Single Gay Man in London (UK - England) Posts: 25 Gallery photos (0) My Mood:	I love the AIDES video, no matter how many times I watch it. Wolfe, I agree with many of the people here. Don;t worry about the types of person you like, the look and the age. Just be safe and enjoy it. Ciao :)