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Old 10th December 2009   #1
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Default What kind of gay relationship will I have?

What kind of relationship will I have?

Will I be the boyfriend? Or will I be the girlfriend?

I could be the boyfriend... or girlfriend...

Oh, wait a minute... I'm not 'boy' or 'girl' anymore... I'm 'gay'!

So I'm gayfriend.

If I had a gay-relationship, it'd be great... I'd be so... myself. And if somebody likes me the way I am, and I like that somebody the way he is, then great. We have ourselves a gay relationship.

I imagine it'd be a bit like my relationship with my best friend. Only more open and more intimate.

And if I had sex with my gayfriend, it'd be great...

Oh well. Just another theory on my gay life.
 
Old 15th December 2009   #2
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Do you have any openly gay friends?
 
Old 15th December 2009   #3
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Do you have any openly gay friends?
I used to, before I got married, but now, no.

Zero gay friends at the moment. At least not in real life.
 
Old 15th December 2009   #4
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This is real ... for some people.
 
Old 15th December 2009   #5
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Time to come out of the closet, methinks.
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Old 16th December 2009   #6
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Being gay doesn't change your gender. I have my girly moments and the girls in the office in the past have always considered me one of the girls. But I am all male. I can be fem but not queeny but for the most part I am a masculin male. I do have long hair and buy a lot of my cloths in the womans department. but I have never been a girl. Girlish but not a girl
 
Old 16th December 2009   #7
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I hate it when some asshole asks me if I'm the man or the woman in my relationship..
We're both men in our relationship. If one of us was a woman, we'd be straight.
 
Old 17th December 2009   #8
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I used to, before I got married, but now, no.

Zero gay friends at the moment. At least not in real life.
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This is real ... for some people.
What happened with your gay friends when you got married?

It seems that when some get into a relationship (gay or straight) some of us forget friends and they can play second fiddle and maybe fade away eventually.

Glad you have found some of us friendly... and friends... and marsh is 100%. Even in real life you never know what/who a person can be and online is no diff.
 
Old 17th December 2009   #9
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What kind of relationship will I have?
You won't know until you have one.

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Will I be the boyfriend? Or will I be the girlfriend?
The girlfriend.

Quote:
Oh, wait a minute... I'm not 'boy' or 'girl' anymore... I'm 'gay'!
So I'm gayfriend.
Since you are a man you can't be a lesbian, maybe a shemale.

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If I had a gay-relationship, it'd be great... I'd be so... myself. And if somebody likes me the way I am, and I like that somebody the way he is, then great. We have ourselves a gay relationship.
Only if you have a relationship will you answer these questions.

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I imagine it'd be a bit like my relationship with my best friend. Only more open and more intimate.
Depends on you and your male friend relationship.

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And if I had sex with my gayfriend, it'd be great...
Depends on you and your gay male friend.

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Oh well. Just another theory on my gay life.
No just another fantasy on being gay.

Soory Amigo, but until you start having a real relationship with another man you won't find out who you really are.
 
Old 18th December 2009   #10
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All GS avatars = Mis amigos....
 
Old 8th September 2010   #11
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I hate it when some asshole asks me if I'm the man or the woman in my relationship..
We're both men in our relationship. If one of us was a woman, we'd be straight.
But if two of you were women, you'd be gay.
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being in a relationship doesn't have to have labels whether whos'e the man or who'se the woman.... it's about the love you have for each other.. nothing more, nothing less...
 
Old 10th February 2011   #13
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as a man being in a gay relationship it means you want to be with a MAN.
therefor none of the 2 men is a woman in the relationship.
unless of course its a transexual.
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Taking offense to the whole man/woman in the relationship thing?? Really?

Seriously, why do people look for things to take offense to............ If a simple ridiculous question kicks you in the man ego, then you have some confidence issues.

Have fun with questions like that, makes things a lot more interesting.

/grouchy
 
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