Am I gay?

[number1boss]

Being gay is not a "disease" . You are still a human.

[PaulS]

Thank you for your replies!

[princealbertofb]

Hello and to GaySpeak PaulS. My experience of life looks very much like yours. After trying out a gay relationship, I had a very good relationship with a woman for four years. Contrary to you, though, this relationship seemed to work for me and for us. We broke up for reasons that were not sentimental but circumstantial.

As I was not sure that I was being honest to myself, despite having been happy with my girlfriend, I promised myself that I'd not fool any other woman into a relationship with me and kept to my word... being celibate for the next 18 years of my life. I have now been in a partnership with a wonderful man for ten years, and I know this is what is right for me.

Your case sounds an awful lot like mine. So I'm guessing you are gay and are ready to give it a second try because, after all, you've realised that you were only fooling yourself (and possibly the woman in your life). If your star sign is correct, it is not surprising that it's taken you all this time to realise this. Taureans are slow making decisions, but they are generally very soundly grounded, once their minds are made up.

Good luck with pursuing a nice same sex relationship in which you can thrive, love and be loved to the full extent of your hearts' capacities. Maybe you'll 'waste' a little less time than I did.

[PaulS]

Thank you
I will carpe diem

[PaulS]

Thank you!!!

Originally Posted by princealbertofb

Hello and to GaySpeak PaulS. My experience of life looks very much like yours. After trying out a gay relationship, I had a very good relationship with a woman for four years. Contrary to you, though, this relationship seemed to work for me and for us. We broke up for reasons that were not sentimental but circumstantial.

As I was not sure that I was being honest to myself, despite having been happy with my girlfriend, I promised myself that I'd not fool any other woman into a relationship with me and kept to my word... being celibate for the next 18 years of my life. I have now been in a partnership with a wonderful man for ten years, and I know this is what is right for me.

Your case sounds an awful lot like mine. So I'm guessing you are gay and are ready to give it a second try because, after all, you've realised that you were only fooling yourself (and possibly the woman in your life). If your star sign is correct, it is not surprising that it's taken you all this time to realise this. Taureans are slow making decisions, but they are generally very soundly grounded, once their minds are made up.

Good luck with pursuing a nice same sex relationship in which you can thrive, love and be loved to the full extent of your hearts' capacities. Maybe you'll 'waste' a little less time than I did.

[princealbertofb]

You are welcome, PaulS!