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Originally Posted by joseph

oh no i ment to tell my mum before my meeting . and my meeting is on friday oh no got to try and tell it quickly. i been bad i not toled her yet.

Joseph, you have not been bad. We all forget things.

All the best.

[XRIMO]

First off, Hello Joseph! Glad to see another new face around here.

Second, I agree with what most of the people here have said. You are very fortunate that you have the ability to find people who live near you on these forums. I wish I lived in the UK to take advantage of that, because there are very few Canadians on these forums and only a couple of them ever post.

You are young and you have lots of time to find the things you need in life. Do things when you are ready and willing. Good luck to you.

[joseph]

hello thank you. it is nice to meet you. we are same age

Originally Posted by joseph

oh no i ment to tell my mum before my meeting . and my meeting is on friday oh no got to try and tell it quickly. i been bad i not toled her yet.

Sorry I was late in saying hello

I know that this meeting is important to you and your family and staff but if you are not ready to tell your mom before the meeting that is OK. You have time to tell her and should be comfortable and not too nervous. So if you are not ready then just wait...

Maybe you already told her today in a rush

and if you did I hope it went well and congratulations my friend..

cant wait to hear how it all went - good luck

[joseph]

i still not toled mum becase i just got scared again. but i will tell her soon becase i been thinking about what cook when i tell her.chicken and wine and potatos and vegetbles. then give the card saying in it i am gay! so i am going to tell her

[princealbertofb]

Originally Posted by joseph

i still not toled mum becase i just got scared again. but i will tell her soon becase i been thinking about what cook when i tell her.chicken and wine and potatos and vegetbles. then give the card saying in it i am gay! so i am going to tell her

GOOD FOR YOU, JOSEPH!!! GO, GO, GO!!!
We hope your mum is as proud of you for being honest as we are proud of you.
Anyway, a for support when you tell her. Can you arrange for your sister to be there too when you give her the card?

Btw, nice menu!

Originally Posted by princealbertofb

GOOD FOR YOU, JOSEPH!!! GO, GO, GO!!!
We hope your mum is as proud of you for being honest as we are proud of you.
Anyway, a for support when you tell her. Can you arrange for your sister to be there too when you give her the card?

Btw, nice menu!

I agree with PA. I am sure that everything will go very well especially after your sisters knows and she did not freak out. I am sure that your mom will love you with no difference!

It would be a great idea to have Hannah there at dinner unless you just want it to be the two of you... or have Hannah close by in case you need support.

Good luck, you know that all of GS is cheering for you!!!

P.S. If there are any left overs can I get some of your delicious cooking?

[joseph]

yes my sister mith come to. and i can cook for everyone then tell. i am going to do it soon.

We got another one to keep in our mind for the positive vibes!

our joseph is planning the event to tell his mom about his being gay at tea time... I have no idea what hour that is there, and maybe he has already cooked a nice dinner, and presented his coming out card.

I told him there was going to be a tiny frank on his shoulder giving him good words of advice. Anyone else wanna join me on josephs shoulder?

Originally Posted by fjp999

We got another one to keep in our mind ... our joseph is planning the event to tell his mom about his being gay at tea time... Anyone else wanna join me on josephs shoulder?

This is a rite of passage, Frank. I'll be around afterward, but Joseph's going to handle this bit himself and be a bigger man for it.

[BiPenny]

Hope it goes well Joseph - we're all here for you to talk afterwards if you need to!!

[Phil]

Joseph!

[joseph]

hello. thank you. i give mum the card. i was scared to go back int the room when i give it!she said it is ok and she still love me and not cross! she said she gesed it .and give me a hug! so i was very very very happy how it was ok. the bit bad thing was i said in the letter i wonted to go to gay place like club and get a boyfrind.but mum said she dident wont me to go to them and get a boyfrind. so i was abit sad becase i rely relym wonted to and be proply gay but not aloued.but i am very very happy she still loves me. when she said you are not alloued i just said ok so it wasent a argument. so i can be gay but not going to them places.

[CardShark]

I'm glad to hear it went well joseph .

Congratulations

[BiPenny]

Well done Joseph!!!

I'm glad it has gone well for you - well done for being so brave!!!

Maybe as your mum knows now she will start to think about letting you go out to different places - you don't have to go to a gay bar to meet men.

Just because you don't go to gay bars doesn't stop you being a proper gay!!!!!

Maybe think about other places you can go - like social groups - where you might meet someone, maybe your mum will think this is ok? Lots of mums worry about their kids going to bars and clubs - mine does and she doesn't even know I'm bi!!!!

Congratulations Joseph, I hope you are happy tonight