09-03-2013, 08:42 PM
I will not reveal my name, but I would like to have some advice about my situation. Iâm a gay man in my late twenties and Iâve total mess going on in my life right now. Iâve been dating a guy for about half a year. When we met, he said that heâs 20 and I was kind of confused. Usually I donât date so young guys, but he was so intelligent, cute and sweet that I fell for him almost immediately. We had wonderful relationships for several months. He made me feel incredibly good, I have never felt so beautiful with any other guy.
But then suddenly his mother started to kind of stalk us. It seemed strange to me and he said that sheâs just not ok with him being gay. We avoided her as much as we could until one day she ran into us and accused me of seducing an underage. Then it turned out that my boyfriend is just 16 years old. I was shocked, really shocked. I couldnât believe it, it turned my life upside down.
I havenât really talked to him after that. It has been almost a month already. He kind of explained me why he did it. He wanted to make love with me and he didnât want to wait. And thatâs one of the worst things â we really had sex and not just once. Because I never had any doubts about his age, he doesn't look like he's 16. I would have never touched him if I would have known heâs underage. His mother warned me that sheâll involve the police if Iâll approach her son again. He's searching every possibility to meet me. Every day he waits for me next to the place where I work, he comes to my place almost every evening and asks for forgiveness, he cries and tells me he cannot live without me, but I cannot forgive him. He has been lying to me more than 6 months. How? You can lie about lots of things, but how can you be so stupid to lie about your age?
But then suddenly his mother started to kind of stalk us. It seemed strange to me and he said that sheâs just not ok with him being gay. We avoided her as much as we could until one day she ran into us and accused me of seducing an underage. Then it turned out that my boyfriend is just 16 years old. I was shocked, really shocked. I couldnât believe it, it turned my life upside down.
I havenât really talked to him after that. It has been almost a month already. He kind of explained me why he did it. He wanted to make love with me and he didnât want to wait. And thatâs one of the worst things â we really had sex and not just once. Because I never had any doubts about his age, he doesn't look like he's 16. I would have never touched him if I would have known heâs underage. His mother warned me that sheâll involve the police if Iâll approach her son again. He's searching every possibility to meet me. Every day he waits for me next to the place where I work, he comes to my place almost every evening and asks for forgiveness, he cries and tells me he cannot live without me, but I cannot forgive him. He has been lying to me more than 6 months. How? You can lie about lots of things, but how can you be so stupid to lie about your age?
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) but if I thought the relationship was gonna go somewhere, I would've confessed right away...but I think it's rather hard to lie about your age for half a year though....wouldn't you realize that maybe he has a high-school schedule? or etc?
