Typical asshole behavior, they always say "everyone does" just to make them feel better, instead of being a better person they drag the whole world down in one simple sentence.
No darling, not everyone cheats, some people would say it's animal instinct that is on our nation, and a whole bag of crap, I do respect their opinions, but I myself have been tempted several times while on a relationship and never cheated, part of it was because I was madly in love at the moment but deep down it didn't even had to do with my lovers at the time, I didn't cheat because I wouldn't like myself anymore.
Simple as that, don't let your boyfriend make you jaded.
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You're much better off without him my friend - not everybody cheats and your ex was talking utter rubbish in an attempt to somehow convince you that his needs are more important than your feelings. What a jerk!
I myself have never cheated and never would, though because I'm bisexual there are many out there who would, if given the chance question me on that and refuse to date me because I'm supposedly more likely to cheat. That attitude upsets me, angers me to be truthful, because it takes who I myself am out of the equation and reduces me to a label. I see people as attractive rather than 'men' or 'women' and therefore in many people's mind that must mean I need to be with both genders in order to be satisfied with my life and therefore will cheat. I'm not sure where that supposition comes from but anyone who knows me knows that my personal code of conduct, my sense of honour if you will, and the seriousness with which I view love and relationships would understand that I'm not going to cheat. I realise that this may seem a little uncalled for and I apologise for that, it's just something I feel very strongly about as you can imagine.
The short answer to your question is - no there are many good, trustworthy, wonderful people out there who would never cheat no matter how tempted they may be at times. You are too good to be stuck with someone who would reduce your feelings to something so trivial. One day you'll find someone who loves you for you, who understands you and respects you. Remain true to yourself and your beliefs and you will find someone worthy of your love.
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Not everyone cheats. But a lot of cheaters like to make a big deal about monogamy and being exclusive so that it's a red flag to me when anyone makes a big deal out of it. It's a lot like how liars expect deceit, cheaters expect everyone else to also be unfaithful and they want to nip that in the bud (and if it makes it easier for them to cheat later on because their partner they suckered into thinking the cheater must be so faithful then so much the better for the cheater).
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After reading all the replies, and hearing so many people say that they don't cheat, I feel a lot better. When I broke up with him, he said I was immature and needed to grow up - more BS. I misjudged him from the start, I should have known what he was like by the kind of friends he has, if nothing else. 3 of them started hitting on me the minute we broke up - a big no thanks to all of them lol -
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No, everyone doesn't cheat. What he's doing is indicative of an immature, high school mentality. He's a boy, not a man. Lose him.
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