07-05-2014, 09:13 PM
Is it possible for a guy to not remember having sex when he was slightly drunk?
Iâm talking about my friend and me. We know each other for quite long time already and weâre good friends. Heâs straight, at least he said heâs straight when he found out Iâm gay. So there was a small party for my friends and me at my place. He was also there. We were all having very good time and then it was late night already when the guests were leaving and he stayed. He said he had a car outside but couldnât drive because of being drunk, so he asked me if I could put him up for the night. Of course I said yes, I didnât want him to get himself into some car crash or something.
However I would have never thought that this will happen. When we were getting ready for the sleep, he suddenly approached me , put his arms around me and started kissing me on the cheek. I was so very surprised that at the first moment I couldnât understand what was he doing and what was going on. He kept on touching and kissing me, I know I shouldâve probably said no and not let him, but actually I had a crush on him for a very long time, but I thought it was impossible since he said heâs straight. So I didnât push him away and to be honest, it was the best sex in my life.
In the next morning we both woke up, I was very happy and he was having some headache. I said that the last night was awesome and he asked what I meant. I then said I meant our lovemaking and he was like âwhat the hell are you talking about, I could never have sex with youâ. He said he doesnât remember anything. I was surprised and I canât force myself to believe he doesnât remember. I mean - yes, he was drunk, but I know him for a long time and Iâve seen him when heâs severely drunk and also when heâs just a little drunk. This time he wasnât so drunk, he was walking and talking normally, thatâs why I canât believe he doesnât remember. Even after really hard parties he usually remembers something. We even fought because of it. I donât like being lied to and he was all like â donât remember anything, donât know anything and donât want to talk about it. He says the last thing he remembers is coming inside my room and thatâs it. When I asked how would he explain that weâre naked in the same bed, he was like âI donât know what you did to me, probably just took advantage of me while I was asleepâ. Jesus, he was not asleep! He only fell asleep when we were finished, we both fell asleep then. He didnât even want to talk to me, just left my place as soon as possible. He also was like âI told you already Iâm not gay and if you touched me, thatâs on your conscience". He was the one who touched me first and he wanted me through all the night. He says this cannot be, he could never sleep with a man.
We havenât contacted since this morning. I was hurt and offended when he said I took advantage of him. I thought he knew me better. I would've never done it and if he hadnât touch me first, nothing wouldâve happened. Iâm also sad because I thought he might feel something to me and now he just avoids me and pretends nothing ever happened. If he didnât like it or felt ashamed or whatever, he couldâve just told me that and Iâd understand. But why he has to lie and act like he doesnât remember? I donât want to lose him as a friend at least.
I donât believe he doesnât remember. Do you? Is it possible to not remember passionate sex?
Iâm talking about my friend and me. We know each other for quite long time already and weâre good friends. Heâs straight, at least he said heâs straight when he found out Iâm gay. So there was a small party for my friends and me at my place. He was also there. We were all having very good time and then it was late night already when the guests were leaving and he stayed. He said he had a car outside but couldnât drive because of being drunk, so he asked me if I could put him up for the night. Of course I said yes, I didnât want him to get himself into some car crash or something.
However I would have never thought that this will happen. When we were getting ready for the sleep, he suddenly approached me , put his arms around me and started kissing me on the cheek. I was so very surprised that at the first moment I couldnât understand what was he doing and what was going on. He kept on touching and kissing me, I know I shouldâve probably said no and not let him, but actually I had a crush on him for a very long time, but I thought it was impossible since he said heâs straight. So I didnât push him away and to be honest, it was the best sex in my life.
In the next morning we both woke up, I was very happy and he was having some headache. I said that the last night was awesome and he asked what I meant. I then said I meant our lovemaking and he was like âwhat the hell are you talking about, I could never have sex with youâ. He said he doesnât remember anything. I was surprised and I canât force myself to believe he doesnât remember. I mean - yes, he was drunk, but I know him for a long time and Iâve seen him when heâs severely drunk and also when heâs just a little drunk. This time he wasnât so drunk, he was walking and talking normally, thatâs why I canât believe he doesnât remember. Even after really hard parties he usually remembers something. We even fought because of it. I donât like being lied to and he was all like â donât remember anything, donât know anything and donât want to talk about it. He says the last thing he remembers is coming inside my room and thatâs it. When I asked how would he explain that weâre naked in the same bed, he was like âI donât know what you did to me, probably just took advantage of me while I was asleepâ. Jesus, he was not asleep! He only fell asleep when we were finished, we both fell asleep then. He didnât even want to talk to me, just left my place as soon as possible. He also was like âI told you already Iâm not gay and if you touched me, thatâs on your conscience". He was the one who touched me first and he wanted me through all the night. He says this cannot be, he could never sleep with a man.
We havenât contacted since this morning. I was hurt and offended when he said I took advantage of him. I thought he knew me better. I would've never done it and if he hadnât touch me first, nothing wouldâve happened. Iâm also sad because I thought he might feel something to me and now he just avoids me and pretends nothing ever happened. If he didnât like it or felt ashamed or whatever, he couldâve just told me that and Iâd understand. But why he has to lie and act like he doesnât remember? I donât want to lose him as a friend at least.
I donât believe he doesnât remember. Do you? Is it possible to not remember passionate sex?