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Gay guys who watch straight porn
#11
because in theory sexuality is fluid, that's what I have read
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#12
Well that's definitely a more informative answer than this being an apparent free world.

Sexuality may be "fluid" for some however I can say that I've not experienced any change in the way sexuality has worked with myself. For those who say they're fluid and get attractions to each sex I usually just narrow it down to them being bisexual or even something like pansexual that can feel attractions to many different people, the talk of fluidity to me is just a way of complicating the way that people think of sexuality.
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#13
There seems to be a thing about self-proclaimed straight guys who really like gay porn too. I dunno maybe it is more to do with being turned on by sex itself and the tone and mood of it, rather than who is having sex. Personally I like gay porn because of the masculinity, the rawness and roughness of it, not just because I like seeing two men together. Plus on the few times I ever watched straight porn it all seemed a bit 'mechanical' like they were just going through the motions.
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#14
knickerbuck Wrote:because in theory sexuality is fluid, that's what I have read

Watching porn is not sexuality. Although, it is indicative, even strongly indicative, there are exceptions. I know of straight guys who get off on gay porn, and I have read a perspective on it written by an accomplished psychotherapist, explaining the phenomenon. And, to put it shortly, it does not mean a guy is gay (or bisexual), just because he watches gay porn.

Who you desire to have sex with and to form a physical and romantic attachment to is indicative of sexuality (as opposed to who you experiment with out of fun, newness, availability, etc).

Even sexual behavior is not always a true indication of a man's sexuality (this is where Kinsey got it wrong). Men experiment. A number of straight guys have experimented with men, and they are still heterosexual, regardless of the fact that they had sex and orgasmed with another man. It is my opinion that a heterosexual man can have sex with another man and still remain heterosexual.

The same goes for gay guys. Although I don't include myself under it, gay guys are capable of having sex with women and they have done so throughout ages. It happens less in our age in the Western society, because the social/economic/etc pressure to do so is more or less absent.

The whole ''sexuality is fluid'' theory is misguided and asserted by people who are not able to differentiate between sexual behavior and sexual orientation in man. And it is propagated more out of underlying subjective identity issues (and issues with sexual inhibition), than out of actual sense of one's sexual orientation and/or being in touch with oneself.

People need to learn to distinguish more clearly between constrained behavior, physical act, and actual sexual desire.
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#15
i think what really draws me into porn is whether a man knows that he's sexy or that he's just into the sex, the former is a major turn on for me.
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#16
When I'm entertaining my bent "straight" BF, AKA "Tickle Boy,"... yeah. He's totally into tity fucking porn (and tickle bondage, too, ofc). I have to say, those big dicks sliding between some fat tits, not bad! But, left to my own devices, erm... not so much. Occasionally. Rarely.
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#17
I've seen it before when I was younger. I wasn't into it. I don't watch much gay porn either.
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#18
Yes, I used to watch straight since I met the gay when I was younger. (15yo), and after that I never watched the straight again... but now, well I returned to find the taste for it Biglaugh
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#19
For some reason, I can really get off to watching a man pounding a vagina. Unfortunately the woman's moaning is a big turnoff and there's a lot of that.
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#20
Back when i was questioning my sexuality which was 8 years ago... And it wasn't satisfying as gay porn is. Seeing a woman nude in a sexual way makes me laugh, Its not that there anything wrong with heir bodies its just my weird ass mind finding it funny.
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