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06-13-2016, 10:03 PM

axle2152 Wrote:Well not coming out can in some cases make it tricky to have a relationship with someone. Otherwise, your business is your business.

Now that being said I don't go around telling everyone. Friends & Family for the most part. I figure I would worry about the rest when I meet the right person and things actually get serious.

First, I have to have a relationship. Lol! But yes I understand that it will be hard to have a relationship without being out.

I promise when I come out it will only be my family and just the close good friends. It's no one else's business, however if it were to come up I would tell them. Just my thoughts anyway... I do fear that when I do come out, I don't want to be known just for the gay aspect of my life. I am more than that! To me that is just a tiny piece of me.

InbetweenDreams · 06-13-2016, 11:42 PM

[MENTION=23550]ClosetCase[/MENTION] Well being gay does have the "WOW" factor. But it wears off. Everyone's family is different. I live in probably one of the most bigoted states next to Oklahoma. So I don't broadcast the rainbow to everyone, so I know where you're coming from. It wasn't easy for me in the beginning to accept, wasn't easy to come out either.

06-14-2016, 02:25 AM

axle2152 Wrote:[MENTION=23550]ClosetCase[/MENTION] Well being gay does have the "WOW" factor. But it wears off. Everyone's family is different. I live in probably one of the most bigoted states next to Oklahoma. So I don't broadcast the rainbow to everyone, so I know where you're coming from. It wasn't easy for me in the beginning to accept, wasn't easy to come out either.

I think I am to the point where I accept the fact that I am gay with myself. I just have to get over the feeling of "its not your business who I would rather have in bed." Idk... Maybe I am to private but I think a lot of personal stuff is shared when it shouldn't be.

Insertnamehere · 06-14-2016, 04:27 AM

Welcome to GS Ethan Smile

Disclaimer: Adele? We may have an impasse here.

06-14-2016, 04:49 AM

Insertnamehere Wrote:Welcome to GS Ethan

Disclaimer: Adele? We may have an impasse here.

Thank you!!

Dan1980 · 06-14-2016, 09:05 PM

Hi welcome Ethan Smile

06-14-2016, 11:56 PM

hello, welcome to GS .. enjoy your stay bro .. ! ..

06-15-2016, 12:02 AM

Dan1980 Wrote:Hi welcome Ethan

Thank you Dan! Glad to be here!

06-15-2016, 12:02 AM

knickerbuck Wrote:hello, welcome to GS .. enjoy your stay bro .. ! ..

Thank you for the welcome!

06-15-2016, 12:08 AM

ClosetCase Wrote:Thank you for the welcome!

yw, hehe lol ..

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