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Geminize, thanks for your reply. We separated in our 29th year of marriage when I admitted being with a man. I had a gay relationship in my late teens but somehow convinced myself I was straight and tried to live a so called normal life. I had many good years and love my wife and kids but as the relationship declined I became more and more drawn to men. I continue to support my family and I imagine a divorce is in my future. I've just ended a male relationship that lasted almost a year and it helped me understand who I really am.