Is he gay?

[devahn8]

Ok so if you're friends with a dude you like, and he seems like he could be gay, how would you tell if he's gay?

In my case he's 26, good looking, amazing personality, good job but his been single since I met him at the beginning of the year. He also has a lot of gay friends. Any thoughts?

[Dreamer]

Obviously, he's not homophobic,
given the gay friends he has.


The only solution would be to simply ask him!

[ardus]

Ask him out on a date.

Richard

[devahn8]

Obviously, he's not homophobic,
given the gay friends he has.


The only solution would be to simply ask him!

I get that, but not yet. I wanna become better friends with him but I don't wanna seem too obvious. He knows I'm gay.

[Dreamer]

You asking him if he's gay or not
shouldn't give away your looming interest
in becoming "better friends" with him.


He'll just think you're curious... nothing more...


I'm sure you wouldn't be the only person who has asked.


Unless you start sweating, stuttering,
and twisting your foot like a shy school girl,
you shouldn't alarm him of wanting to better acquaint yourself with him.


If you can't handle it,
just ask one of his closer gay friends.
I don't see why they wouldn't know.

[MisterTinkles]

Why do people make something SO simple into something SO hard.

Ask him what type of men he likes. That should give you your answer.

[devahn8]

does he date (men)
ask his gay friends who what he is

Well I haven't met any of them personally.

[devahn8]

I would ask him, but if it flops it would suck because he's friends with a few of my friends and I'd embarrass myself (most of my guy friends are straight). Not that I wanna make excuses but yeah.

[trialbyerror]

Devi!

Listen up and listen good :biggrin:

Ouma praat

Vra hom om saam te kom danse by die naaste club... Moenie soos ouma wees en wag al 10 yaar, die blerry leve is ganse te kort...:biggrin:

[devahn8]

Devi!

Listen up and listen good :biggrin:

Ouma praat

Vra hom om saam te kom danse by die naaste club... Moenie soos ouma wees en wag al 10 yaar, die blerry leve is ganse te kort...:biggrin:

Lol ek is bang. But I'll try. I'm talking to him now.