09-24-2013, 08:38 PM
What would you think of a man whoâs virgin at the age of 30? Well, thatâs me. Iâm 30 years old and Iâve never had sex. And I would appreciate if you wouldnât laugh about it.
Iâve been thinking if thatâs okay. Itâs not that I hadnât have chances to have sex, Iâve had lots of them. I am not ugly, no Brad Pitt of course, but I am not ugly. Iâm not fat or skinny either, Iâm physically and mentally normal man, however Iâve never felt desire to have sex with another person. I like to masturbate, but I donât want to have sex with a person. I like handsome guys very much, but still I prefer them with their clothes on, I donât want to get into bed with them.
I had a boyfriend once. We were together for 2 years and our relationships were very good as far as the emotional goes. I was really in love with him; I loved to care about him, to help him whenever he needed it, to make sure heâs happy and satisfied with everything. But when it came to physical love, few kisses were all I could offer to him. He was wonderful, very handsome and very sweet, but I just didnât want to make love with him. Eventually he didnât want to put up with it anymore; he started to doubt my love and claimed that if I donât want him, I donât really love him. But thatâs not true, I did really love him. I just didnât want to have sex. Later we broke up, because I realized that it wasnât fair to him to be in a relationships where he wants something I cannot give him.
I donât think Iâm an asexual, because I can get horny and I like to masturbate, but I like to do it alone and by myself. In fact I donât think I could ever sleep with another person. I donât think I could be naked in front of someone I like, Iâm very shy. I realize donât have to be ashamed of my body, Iâm quite fit, but still. It might happen that Iâll be virgin my whole life and actually I wouldnât mind it, but sometimes Iâm thinking why am I like this? I mean, men will usually jump at sex, right?
Iâve been thinking if thatâs okay. Itâs not that I hadnât have chances to have sex, Iâve had lots of them. I am not ugly, no Brad Pitt of course, but I am not ugly. Iâm not fat or skinny either, Iâm physically and mentally normal man, however Iâve never felt desire to have sex with another person. I like to masturbate, but I donât want to have sex with a person. I like handsome guys very much, but still I prefer them with their clothes on, I donât want to get into bed with them.
I had a boyfriend once. We were together for 2 years and our relationships were very good as far as the emotional goes. I was really in love with him; I loved to care about him, to help him whenever he needed it, to make sure heâs happy and satisfied with everything. But when it came to physical love, few kisses were all I could offer to him. He was wonderful, very handsome and very sweet, but I just didnât want to make love with him. Eventually he didnât want to put up with it anymore; he started to doubt my love and claimed that if I donât want him, I donât really love him. But thatâs not true, I did really love him. I just didnât want to have sex. Later we broke up, because I realized that it wasnât fair to him to be in a relationships where he wants something I cannot give him.
I donât think Iâm an asexual, because I can get horny and I like to masturbate, but I like to do it alone and by myself. In fact I donât think I could ever sleep with another person. I donât think I could be naked in front of someone I like, Iâm very shy. I realize donât have to be ashamed of my body, Iâm quite fit, but still. It might happen that Iâll be virgin my whole life and actually I wouldnât mind it, but sometimes Iâm thinking why am I like this? I mean, men will usually jump at sex, right?