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Its happening.
#1
For those of you who don't know yet, I am in the process of coming out to my family. On new years eve i came out to my own mother and today my sister found out.

Both have been positive. Though my mother continues to say " I would love to see you with a woman, But your choice is your choice." Its not the response i wanted to hear because she believes its a choice. but she isn't condemning me or disowning me, so i will say this is positive. My sister is fine with it and says she knew She once rummaged through my sketch books and stumbled onto a couple----in appropriate drawings...

Big Grin

LOL


Needless to say this is a freeing experiance, i'll keep you guys posted as i selectively come out to my family members. My dad doesnt know yet, but mom is worried he'll explode.
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#2
Awesome!

Strategize with your Mom and sister on how to best tell your Dad. Your Mom will know how to handle it.
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#3
Its good to hear you have positive people in your life during the tough road your on
I am the angles that hold and surround you

I am the demon you're afraid to meet
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#4
Amazing Smile

Congrats Rod. Glad this is all going well so far.
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#5
Love positive stories like this, it is such a good feeling to be able to be open. Congrats Rod Smile
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#6
Well done [MENTION=23049]Rod[/MENTION]. My Mum and sister were the same, my sister outright accepted it, and my Mum mostly accepted it at first, with a hope it was a phase. However over time she came to realise it wasn't a phase kind of thing and I think it was when she saw me happily with my ex that she fully accepted this was real. A couple of years ago she ended up saying she was pleased to have a gay son Big Grin Also, same with Dad - my Mum said we could never tell him as he'd have a heart attack (he was always very derogative towards gay people when I was growing up). However one day she just told him and he was fine about it. I don't have the greatest relationship with my Dad (none of my family really do for good reason) but it was still great that he wasn't bothered. I hope your Dad is accepting too. Let us know how you get on Smile
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#7
Ah, a happy story to start the day. Very pleased for you. Good luck with the rest of the family.
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#8
Rod Wrote:My sister is fine with it and says she knew She once rummaged through my sketch books and stumbled onto a couple----in appropriate drawings...

What was so explicit about your drawings?

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Nevermind....

Rod Wrote:My dad doesnt know yet, but mom is worried he'll explode.

Your dad wood certainly "explode" if he saw your drawings. .
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#9
Yeah, best of luck, coming out to family is never an easy task Wink
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#10
Congratulations ��
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