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Straight guy experimenting with me HELP!
#1
Okay so basically I am a 16 year old gay person, and last night there was about 25 of us at a house party. I got pretty drunk, just like most people did. After the party had finished most of us went back to my friends house for an afterparty. These two guys came back who were not really invited and who are usually really mean and annoying.
I was kind of mad they had came back, so I confronted them, but after a discussion we started to get along. Long story short, I told them I was gay. They accepted it and even hugged me. One of the guys in particular, who we will call Tony for the sake of this, was telling me that he thinks I am such a nice guy and that if he was gay he would "shag me". I just started laughing and stuff. Later on I started talking about how good I was at blowjobs, i wasnt really being serious though.
After a bit I left the room to go upstairs to use the toilet. Tony followed me. He started asking me which guys I had done stuff with. I said that I dont speak about that, and that I am a very private person. He then went onto to say how he has thought about doing stuff with guys and that he would let me give him a blowjob.
I just laughed because I was almost certain he was joking and I just went back downstairs, and went into the kitchen, in which he followed me.
I was like what is it and he said come in here and we went into the dining room. It was pitch dark. He asked me if I would suck him off and I said stop winding me up and he said im not, ive got my dick out. I put my hands out to feel if he had and he did, so I immediantly got on my knees and done it. During it he got more and more erect. However after about 10 seconds he told me to stop and said he did not like it and then just left the room.
About 20 minutes later he found me in one of the bedrooms and asked If I wanted to do anal. I blatantly refused and he went back downstairs. He then text me saying that if anyone ever found out he would slit my throat.
The next day (today) he text me asking if I had told anyone and I said no and that i would never. He said thank you for letting him realise that hes straight and hes glad hes done it because now he knows who he is.
I was just wondering / looking for advice. Is he just experimenting or is he in denial / likes boys too because I think hes cute and wouldnt mind continuing to see him, but I do know how to handle the situation really.
Thanks in advance.
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#2
jakejardine Wrote:He then text me saying that if anyone ever found out he would slit my throat.

I think hes cute and wouldnt mind continuing to see him, but I do know how to handle the situation really.

Have you lost your f'ing mind? He sent you a death threat, man... and it sure doesn't sound like he was joking.

Whether he's into guys or not? Stay away. Stay FAR, FAR away.
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#3
TwisttheLeaf Wrote:Have you lost your f'ing mind? He sent you a death threat, man... and it sure doesn't sound like he was joking.

Whether he's into guys or not? Stay away. Stay FAR, FAR away.

Yeah...no. You need to back away from that real fast, man.
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#4
Don't ever talk to this guy again. This happens from time to time, and can end with you being dead. It's one of the things that is very rarely talked. This reminds me of the recent show Cucumber. Go watch that show, and you'll see exactly what we are talking about. This guy has some serious issues. I'm sure he is in so much denial, and you giving him that BJ, just confirmed it for him and now he has to go further into denial, and now you know he's at least done something with a guy. He thinks you're a threat to him now, but in reality he is a threat to you. Do not tell anyone, and do not talk to him ever again, heck don't even look at him if he is in the same place as you, and leave if you can.
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#5
The others have given you good advice...I can't emphasize enough how dangerous a situation like this could be. You need to stay away from him. It's obvious that he's very volatile around this issue and there's absolutely no way this would end well for you. Please be careful.

I'm glad that you decided to join GS, there are a lot of guys here who've lived through a lot of different situations, both good and bad, and are willing to share their experience. Welcome to the forum!
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#6
Defintiely stay away from this guy, that death threat certainly didn't sound like a joke. Even if you do find him cute and would like to see him again, he is certainly not at the stage where he is at all comfortable with his sexuality, whatever that is. It could only end badly.

Welcome to the forum btw Smile
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#7
I don't mean to be a douche but I'm wondering a bit about your self respect. You went down on this guy who at the beginning of the story you said was a jerk, just because he wanted you to? You said you're a private person but just because he is demanding discretion from you doesn't mean he won't be bragging about this if it suits him.

Maybe I am old and prudish (okay, I know I am) but this is an aspect of being a gay dude I just don't get. Dicks are neat and all but if the person it's attached to hasn't gone some distance to win me over, he can keep it away from me.
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#8
How to handle the situation from here on? Don't contact him, don't meet with him in private. You didn't meet a future boyfriend in him, nor a friend for life. For whatever reason he did not enjoy the experience, so it's unlikely he'll come back for more. If he needs help with his coming out (highly unlikely), he knows you're discreet and how to contact you.

But in the meantime, do nothing!
Bernd

Being gay is not for Sissies.
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#9
Bhp91126 Wrote:But in the meantime, do nothing!

Indeeed. Do nothing. And DONT watch Cucumber. Its a pile of *****. Just like the situation with this guy. Youre 16 and infatuated with The Thing You Cant Have.

You cant have it. Its nasty and dangerous. Move on.
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#10
All of the above.

He did what he did for his reasons. You were just a lab rat, a part of the experiment. Leave him alone with his thoughts.
I bid NO Trump!
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