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Trying to mix things up with the bf
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So I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months, and things have been getting a bit stale. We live in a place where there isn't much to do, except go to the movies, or to the lake. Also 9 times out of 10 we are hanging out with his friends, which can be a bit annoying even though I like his friends. I'm trying to think of something just the 2 of us, but I'm coming up with nothing. I've thought about making dinner for him, but I'd have to do it at his place (I live with my parents still) and I have no idea if his roommates will be there.
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Radbot42 Wrote:So I've been dating this guy for almost 5 months, and things have been getting a bit stale. We live in a place where there isn't much to do, except go to the movies, or to the lake. Also 9 times out of 10 we are hanging out with his friends, which can be a bit annoying even though I like his friends. I'm trying to think of something just the 2 of us, but I'm coming up with nothing. I've thought about making dinner for him, but I'd have to do it at his place (I live with my parents still) and I have no idea if his roommates will be there.

You can try these activities:
-Bowling
-Play in a gaming shop
-Take a course together ( can be cooking, language, technical skills etc. )
-Go to the amusement park
-Fishing
-Biking
etc
You can tell him nicely that you would like an outing with him and you only if that is what you want.
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#3
Go out to eat. Doesn't have to be expensive.
Take trips - stay over in a cheap CLEAN hotel/motel.
Go dancing... ballroom?
Museums.
Antique stores & second hand stores.
Zoo.
Camping/star gazing.
Hiking.
Open houses... pick out your dream house together.
Massages/manicure/pedicure each other.
Open air cafe/coffee shops.
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#4
Find something that you both enjoy doing and pick a day to do it. Surprise him with it. It's nice to hang out with friends but you should also make time for just the two of you to hang out.
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#5
How about-

Shopping
Markets
Walks in the park together
Day trips to the coast
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