Want to meet him for the first time in person

[CuddlyBear]

Hey guys, haven't posted anything in a while. I am now in a relationship with someone, and I want to go see him, but several things block that...my mom knows we are dating and is okay with it, but his mom doesn't even know he is gay. I want to go visit this weekend cuz he is in a play, but if I stay, then I would have to get a hotel room, which I have no money for, and I want to ask my parents if they can help pay for it...this is really troubling, please someone help.

[rmf]

How old are you both? I would look around online for hotel rates then provide that info not your parents... online rates are usually lower. There are several deal websites you can use

[CuddlyBear]

I am 18 and he is 16...what websites do you recommend?

[sacredcake]

Hi CuddlyBear,

Can't you just stay with him as a friend without his mom knowing you're gay?

[CuddlyBear]

I wish it were that simple...but I am pretty sure his mom would flip just having a guy over there...

[sacredcake]

Yeah got ya! Well I hope you figure it out easily I wish I could help but I'm not in the USA

[CuddlyBear]

Thanks for your help...I really appreciate it

[Dan1980]

Have you asked your parents to lend you money for a hotel room.

[CuddlyBear]

Not yet...I have to make sure I can even go first before I ask for money. The cheap hotel I found close to him is 50 a night, which isn't that much.

[Dan1980]

How far are you from his?