Why do we watch porn? Why do you watch porn?

[ZackT]

My record for a single day is 5. I can't imagine doing it 8 times.

[BobInTampa]

My partner and i love watching porn - alot! For us, it's a way of keeping a scent of sex always injected into our relationship. We have a couple of favorite sites we have on our smart phones and at least 9 or 10 times a day we'll say, "oh my, look at this guys cock!" It's a fun and harmless way to LOOK at other men's bodies, sex life, etc. that dosn't involve cheating.

Since we are monogamous, porn allows us to "look at the virtual menu" and keep our libido's fired up!

We also enjoy using our webcam! Again, the fact that we made the decision to be monogamous, does NOT change the fact that we're human and have fantasies. Porn allows us to engage our fantasies without having to actually involve anyone else.

Now, my partner and i also belive that just because we're in a committed long-term, monogamous LTR that we can't masturbate. We encourge each other to "scratch that itch" if it arises. In fact, jsut the other saturday my hubby was getting his haircut. I was on one of our favorite webcam sites and got turned on watching two very hot men make love on cam. Well, in a matter of minutes i was naked, on cam, lube and poppers at-the-ready and that's when my hubby came walking into the room. I smiled, he smiled and he then sat on the couch and watched me pleasure myself while he did the same.

So, porn for us is like a virtual appetizer - sometimes it's a pre-cursor to sex, sometimes it's background noise, somtimes it's just fun to look at hot men.

It's ALL about balance.

Oh, and for me, i've seen so much porn (gay, str8, bi, etc) that there's never going to be anything NEW - no techniques, situations, yada-yada-yada,...i'm not going to "learn" anything from porn. However, there are ALWAYS new guys on porn and that's always an attraction to us!

Oh, yea, i agree with the other poster, yea, pro and semi-pro porn is fine, but i much prefer the home-made porn/webcams. Real people having REAL sex! HUGE turn on for us!

[Aester]

I hate it when I accidentally cum to the wrong picture!

Heh as many has stated that the mind is the strongest sex organ, like that picture, it didn't mater if it was a male or female cause your mind was set to think it is what it wants.

Actually I do not have a good answer why. I am not a porn freak but indeed I wank to it. I could masturbate without porn obviously but it is more a tool for my imagination, to boost the level of lust and satisfaction. Lately I've found my self almost drooling more to erotica as the imagine of another man is not needed, and helps to power my imagination and dreams.

[WesHollywood]

My record for a single day is 5. I can't imagine doing it 8 times.

It was weird. I had never seen a Tom of Finland art magazine, and just bought one. I could not get the images out of my mind. I would finish with one pic, and I would start thinking about another. Seriously, I abused myself, and there was pain. It was not fun or funny. By number six it was pure obsession. I do not like to think about it.

[WesHollywood]

Heh as many has stated that the mind is the strongest sex organ, like that picture, it didn't mater if it was a male or female cause your mind was set to think it is what it wants.

Actually I do not have a good answer why. I am not a porn freak but indeed I wank to it. I could masturbate without porn obviously but it is more a tool for my imagination, to boost the level of lust and satisfaction. Lately I've found my self almost drooling more to erotica as the imagine of another man is not needed, and helps to power my imagination and dreams.

Someone told me once that porn can cause unrealistic expectations, and real guys just can not compete with the images. I beg to differ.

I don't know if anyone else does this or not. I see a pic and say to myself, I would do him in real life, but I am not going to waste a load on this pic. When I see a guy doing certain sexual stuff, my mind just seems to build a sexual scenario for me. Maybe we should start a thread on the most unusual pic I have popped to. :biggrin:

The most unusual pic I recall was a hair guy, (not usually my type) sitting on weight lifting bench. Another guy with a really hard erection was poking his cock into the guys nipple. The guy receiving the poke was in absolute heaven, and finally the poker let go with a flood of cum. As the cum hit the guys pecs, I thought the guy was going to cry with pleasure. It was kind of a big deal at the time, the images do pop into my mind on lustful occasions.

[zeon]

Hello,
I watch porn when i do because i got an itch to get rid of... Living with my bf/ex boyfriend - complicated i have cut down the amount i watch... well until i got my HTC phone lol... I find it quite entertaining sometimes and a tad messed up especially with some stupid porno lines. I remember one i watched some guy got a hitch hike and a guy in a expensive sports car picked him up... They pulled over into a layby 2 minutes down the road and then started shagging with amazingly no cars coming along the road.... BORING your bound to get some cars coming and little jimmie asking his mum why that mans humping the other man the same way daddy did you last night...

My partner/ex doesnt like porn and says his got no interest because why look what u can get when u can go out and get the real; thing... He is roman catholic and from strict up bringing in it so might be why his views are like they are lol.... until he met me the corrupted used to be christian

[WesHollywood]

Hello,
I watch porn when i do because i got an itch to get rid of... Living with my bf/ex boyfriend - complicated i have cut down the amount i watch... well until i got my HTC phone lol... I find it quite entertaining sometimes and a tad messed up especially with some stupid porno lines. I remember one i watched some guy got a hitch hike and a guy in a expensive sports car picked him up... They pulled over into a layby 2 minutes down the road and then started shagging with amazingly no cars coming along the road.... BORING your bound to get some cars coming and little jimmie asking his mum why that mans humping the other man the same way daddy did you last night...

My partner/ex doesnt like porn and says his got no interest because why look what u can get when u can go out and get the real; thing... He is roman catholic and from strict up bringing in it so might be why his views are like they are lol.... until he met me the corrupted used to be christian

From my experience with GLBT Catholics they are being pulled in a lot of directions. I remember where I grew up in suburban Los Angeles, a Catholic neighbor told me that when he was in Catholic grade school, the nun took them all down to the boiler room and told them that if they were bad they would go to hell, which meant you would be thrown into the flaming boiler!

Add that to the pedophile priests, anti-abortion politics, anti-right to die politics, and anti-GLBT politics, no wonder Catholics have problems being GLBT in adult life. With all those politics, I wonder how the Roman Catholic Church keeps its tax-exempt status in the United States? We have separation of church and State here by Constitutional law.

[interesting]

My record for a single day is 5. I can't imagine doing it 8 times.

Mine is I think 6, but 8? damn, that's A LOT!!! Embarrassing, but true, my penis got chaffed and I have a mole from when I was younger, I use to rub it like 2 or 3 times in a row and use no lube.

[ZackT]

Yep I imagine it hurt a lot. I know I was sore as hell that day I did 5, I think I didn't go at all for another day or 2 after that...

I personally watch porn with the sound off. I actually don't really "watch" porn all the way through, but rather I take a video of whatever length and I click around it til I find something that interests me and then watch for a few seconds, then click a much smaller amount in to the future and repeat the process. So, I never spend more than a minute at max on any single video.

I like to download hentai though, I like pictures alot. But even there, I generally click through the pictures pretty quickly.

[WesHollywood]

Mine is I think 6, but 8? damn, that's A LOT!!! Embarrassing, but true, my penis got chaffed and I have a mole from when I was younger, I use to rub it like 2 or 3 times in a row and use no lube.

Got to tell you. And, I honestly do not know why, but I would like to see you do that.

As a kid jacking off was an after school thing in the bathroom. There was a loose board behind the bathroom closet where I hid all my gay porn. Of course I had all my Playboys hidden where my parents could easily find them. My mother used to bang on that bathroom door calling out, "Are you all right in there." For Christ sake her mother was a nurse, and she could not figure this out? Who knows it might be why I am gay. I mean you never hear tell of guy jacking off for a woman do you?