Getting bullied, a little or even more.

[StanTheMan]

look for more gay affirming room mates, not necessarily gay but gay accepting, see if you can swap rooms.

Good idea actually. Thanks.

this is what i've done , some people ignored me for a while; but they camed back as the friends they were, making gay jokes about me talking to a guy , but that's what friends do right?

Being ignored is not the worst thing, I'd actually enjoy being a little less "social". My old friends from my home town made gay jokes but I knew they would never do anything to hurt me. And now, I'm just not sure. I just don't want to wake up thinking that today someone might hurt me.