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Have you ever felt unlucky in love?
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Hello all.

So I'm not sure about everyone else, but I feel like finding a guy is the hardest thing I will ever do. I'm a decent looking guy, albeit a little heavy, but I'm intelligent, I have a great job, I"m very mature, and I'm completely self sufficient....so why is it so hard to find a guy who is interested in ME and not just sex?

Sex is great, of course, but I'm in the crowd that's interested in more. I want to connect with someone, I want to know what it feels like to be next to someone...I wanna know what it feels like to open up to someone.

I've gone out to gay bars/clubs, tried to converse with people. I've done the online thing. Everytime something looks slightly promising, it turns out to be shit. Most recently I met a really great older guy, who was really cool. We went to his place to talk more, and that's when I found out that he's married, and his wife just travels for work a lot.

In addition I once met a really great guy, close to my age, handsome and very cool. He too was in a relationship, so he took my number but told me that he wanted to hang out sometime. Weeks later I ended up moving 3 hours away, and suddenly he calls to say "i'm out of that relationship, and i wanna try dating you"......*facepalm*

I've had a few of these near miss situations and it keeps me wondering if its something I'm doing to keep ending up in crappy situations that are over before they even begin.

Has anyone else ever felt like this? How does one find a guy who is interested in more than sex? How do you continue to feel good about yourself when its so difficult finding someone?:confused:
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Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-17-2012, 06:59 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by Pix - 08-17-2012, 09:35 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by monk - 08-17-2012, 10:19 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-17-2012, 10:39 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by nikgee - 08-17-2012, 12:17 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-17-2012, 04:43 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by Blue - 08-17-2012, 05:35 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-17-2012, 06:54 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-18-2012, 05:58 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by ceez - 08-18-2012, 01:40 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by princealbertofb - 08-18-2012, 01:57 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by gayboyindia24 - 08-18-2012, 07:41 PM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-19-2012, 04:08 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-19-2012, 04:10 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by Kiid - 08-19-2012, 07:47 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-19-2012, 08:21 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by Kiid - 08-19-2012, 11:23 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-21-2012, 05:13 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-21-2012, 05:25 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by fr0sty - 08-22-2012, 05:35 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-23-2012, 05:32 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by ESLteacher - 08-23-2012, 07:32 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-24-2012, 01:38 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by 72jay - 08-28-2012, 04:26 AM
Have you ever felt unlucky in love? - by stucknut - 08-28-2012, 04:54 PM

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