08-22-2012, 04:29 AM
My boyfriend and I broke up today, well sort of, more like putting it on pause. He's afraid of doing long distance and feels like we should see what college brings into our lives without having to worry about the other texting/calling/skyping and all the jealousy and mistrust that can come. We said we'd wait until Thanksgiving or Christmas to see if we want to continue. It's all really confusing because during all this he was still calling me baby, saying I love you and even cuddling and holding hands. When he left, he even kissed me and said I love you. I don't see myself with anyone else. I know I'll be meeting lots of people in college, but I went into this very committed and for distance to break us is hard on me. I'm open to doing long distance but I won't force it if he's not comfortable. The only thing to do is just to wait it out. Has anyone had a similar experience?