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Need some advice regarding this guy I have a crush on.
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So... Long story short met a guy at a friend's party, he's really cute, turned out he's straight been with a girl for 5 years now. However ever since we met he seems to want my attention more than you should when you just meet new people. He texts me, messages me on FB to go to their parties, to go fishing with him, to drink and have fun.

When he was half drunk this one time, he admitted jokingly that I have a "pretty" face, I know it could just be a tease but I think he's well aware of my looks. I am not saying I am good looking or anything, but I've yet to get this much attention from any straight guy I've met before. During the same party, I told him I might have to move out of state to find a job since I was laid off with my recent one, he was had some advice for me and it was, to stay.

He acts like we have known one another our whole lives, though we have known each other for a few months. The sucky thing is I have a HUGE crush on this guy. You know when you first meet someone and you fall hard for them and you think to yourself, man, I could fall in love with someone like that today and spend the rest of my tomorrows with him! Well, as cheesy and cliche as it is, I fell for him, hard(no pun intended).

I am trying not to respond to his calls and texts, and try to make up excuses to not attend any of his social outings. Reason being is that I don't want to make all this up in my head and have false hope that he might come out of the closet one day, dump his girlfriend of 5 years and we buy a house and a little dog and live happily ever after.

It's hard to love someone when you know they don't love you back the same way. So I am trying to keep my distance, and ignore these feelings and let it past, I'll get over him eventually like I did with others before but this one is taking longer than I anticipated.

So here lies my dilemma, should I tell him I am gay? I haven't and I am scared it might ruined our friendship, though I kind of do want that to happen because I can't stand it being around him and his girlfriend. He could reject me and be another guy who I have a crush on and get over it but in the back of my mind my stupid self is telling me he might be... bi, maybe 25%? lol

Anyway, has anyone gone through this before? Advice? I sort of made up my mind to just ignore him... it'll be easier that way rather than having second thoughts that he might feel the same way about me. Which is very unlikely... Help?
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Need some advice regarding this guy I have a crush on. - by jeri - 08-22-2012, 08:37 AM
Need some advice regarding this guy I have a crush on. - by BobInTampa - 08-22-2012, 02:55 PM

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