08-24-2012, 08:01 AM
I am dating a fellow right now, very sensitive guy, which I appreciate. He understands I need more time to warm up, being basically a virgin. But he is my first for a few things. O made a fool out of myself flashbacks to child abuse shut my labido down, and kicked me into a defensive place. I know I have to tell him I was abused but I am wondering if it is too soon.