09-03-2012, 12:37 AM
Ok, I wasn't going to post this on here for getting too personal, but I need to get some advice (don't I always? LOL). So anyway, here it goes.
My boyfriend and I have tried twice now to have anal sex and we haven't been very successful. Now keep in mind we are both very new to this, but the furthest we've gotten has been the head of my penis just inside his hole. He squirmed right after it entered and it popped out and he got frustrated so we went on to other things.
But the problem is, he does get frustrated and upset when it doesn't work. I've done my best to reassure him that it's because we're both inexperienced and both a bit nervous and even a little anxious. I keep telling him that we're just going to have to keep tryin an eventually it will happen.
We are using plenty of lube and all so I don't think it's that. I really think it's a combination of being so anxious to try it and nervous cause we've never done it. But can any of y'all give me some advice? And sorry if I got too personal.
My boyfriend and I have tried twice now to have anal sex and we haven't been very successful. Now keep in mind we are both very new to this, but the furthest we've gotten has been the head of my penis just inside his hole. He squirmed right after it entered and it popped out and he got frustrated so we went on to other things.
But the problem is, he does get frustrated and upset when it doesn't work. I've done my best to reassure him that it's because we're both inexperienced and both a bit nervous and even a little anxious. I keep telling him that we're just going to have to keep tryin an eventually it will happen.
We are using plenty of lube and all so I don't think it's that. I really think it's a combination of being so anxious to try it and nervous cause we've never done it. But can any of y'all give me some advice? And sorry if I got too personal.
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