misleading therapist, what do you think

[hank]

I have applied some undue stress upon myself this last year, toiling with my sexuality. Trying to force it one way our another. My thoughts were on the verge of making me explode, that's when I came out. I just couldn't take it any more. O was 28 when I did it has relieved pressures and allowed my mind to relax, in this relaxation memories came bubbling up to the surface. More than I can handle.

I saw a therapist, in the sessions I had with him he told me that people choose their sexuality, and gay men choose it from having an uninvolved father. We seek male ness in sexual relationships. And that if I really wanted to be straight I could.

The life time of memories don't just go away. I tried every thing I could think of to not be bisexual. Nothing worked.

Is this common for therapists to say these things?