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Frustrated and need advice
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So I am in need of advice and I think I know what I need to do but just want some feedback.

So I've been dating my guy for almost a year and we are now about 600 miles away from each other and talk almost nightly but I haven't got to see him in 2 months. Its pretty apparent we are growing apart. I want him to be around and he doesn't seem to want at the level I want. We are at different stages in our lives I think and that is complicating things. I am established in my career and he is just still trying to find his way. I have aging parents that are requiring more health care visits and my time and his parents are still pretty young. He is all about still wanting to try and make light of serious situations and just shoot the breeze and I am a planner of goals, like to check things off my check list, and plan multiple goals in different intervals.

Ive been trying to talk to him and explain where I am coming from and its like I am talking to the air at times. I feel like sometimes I am trying to mentor an employee or teen from one of the volunteer programs I have worked in and its frustrating for me. If I am being honest I want a partner in my life not someone I feel like I am training. I fell for him because he is pretty, smart, very funny and our personalities work well together. However, he still acts like he is a frat boy even though he has been out of college for several years. I don't want to be angry at him for being him and I don't want him to resent me for pushing on him to advance himself. He is sweet and tells me what he thinks I want to hear but his actions are totally still all about him.

I feel like it maybe time to break it off but its difficult to do so. The crux for me is I am in love with this guy in a big way but the problems I have been explaining to him and his response are really not working for me. Its like we are on two different roads.

Words of advice?
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Messages In This Thread
Frustrated and need advice - by Anonymous - 10-05-2012, 05:07 AM
Frustrated and need advice - by Rainbowmum - 10-05-2012, 06:34 AM
Frustrated and need advice - by Blue - 10-05-2012, 07:05 AM
Frustrated and need advice - by dfiant - 10-05-2012, 08:18 AM
Frustrated and need advice - by lizzielee - 10-05-2012, 02:16 PM
Frustrated and need advice - by Bowyn Aerrow - 10-05-2012, 07:48 PM
Frustrated and need advice - by Nick9 - 10-05-2012, 08:18 PM
Frustrated and need advice - by ChadCoxRox - 10-06-2012, 01:21 AM
Frustrated and need advice - by SlipknotRlZZ - 10-06-2012, 10:19 AM

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