Gay and Overweight

[livingproof]

I've posted as different people before, and I come here for advice occasionally. I come here now for a few reasons. The first thing is, I may be getting into a relationship soon, I'm not sure yet. I'm still a virgin, and I'm overweight. I'll tall (6'0-6'1) and 248lbs. I've lost over 40lbs so far, but I'm still REALLY uncomfortable with my weight. I'm sorta hairy, so I guess I could be considered a bear in the physical sense, but I'm not sure. I'm very insecure about my weight, especially if something happens with this guy and if it becomes physical. I'm still losing weight, but honestly, I'm still really nervous about everything. What do you think I should do? Should I try to change my thinking?! Thanks.