People are Finding Out

[Double007]

So,

Last week I bumped into a guy who used to work in my building at a gay club. I was there last night and ran into a guy who used to the music minister at the church that I used to go to. Both times were awkward at first. The guy worked with just came and said hello and then left, but the former music minister and I spent a few hours talking and laughing. I honestly felt so good about it. It gave me a chance to get things of my chest. He shared a little bit of his story and showed me a picture of his partner for the las 7 years. It was liberating. Now, with all the good comes a worry. I've now run into two people at a gay club and this could lead to rumors. I have decent amount of trust for my former church friend and maybe the former coworker. Honestly, I am becoming more comfortable with being attracted to guys and would like to be in a relationship. But since I have never been in one or had any sexual experiences, I don't want to label myself as gay yet. How should I handle this? What would you do if this information got out?