03-05-2014, 05:46 AM
I have been dating a guy about 7 months that is recently out. He is 33. He has been dating girls his entire life prior to me. I am the first guy he ever dated. We have been living together for about a month now.
My question is... Is it possible to be in a relationship with someone who recently came out? He is sexually attracted to others. I've went back and forth internally about an open relationship. The good news is he is always willing to do what makes me happy. The bad news is that deep down, I know he wants to fuck other guys. I also the extra curricular sex with him but I am not so keen on independent sexual hook ups.
I also travel for work and he spends time while I'm away focused on grindr. It's frustrating to see the amount of attention he gives to other guys. And even more so that it's not always just sexual conversation. He says it's cause this world is new to him and he is just curious. I'm just not sure I can be patient through his "transition".
Thoughts?
My question is... Is it possible to be in a relationship with someone who recently came out? He is sexually attracted to others. I've went back and forth internally about an open relationship. The good news is he is always willing to do what makes me happy. The bad news is that deep down, I know he wants to fuck other guys. I also the extra curricular sex with him but I am not so keen on independent sexual hook ups.
I also travel for work and he spends time while I'm away focused on grindr. It's frustrating to see the amount of attention he gives to other guys. And even more so that it's not always just sexual conversation. He says it's cause this world is new to him and he is just curious. I'm just not sure I can be patient through his "transition".
Thoughts?
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