How would you...?

[Phil]

Deal with an extremely homophobic family....literally violently homophobic :mad: i mean these folks are like summit outta the middle ages i've met one and the only thing stopped me eatin outta a straw for the next 6 months was the fact i was sober enough to reach a weapon....anyhoo the one i met was sposed to be the most laid back :eek: so imaginin "tea" with the rest i had visions of summit along the lines of Texas Chainsaw!
I always thought faced with those type of folk i'd stand proud but......i'm ashamed to say i did the exact opposite in my defense tho (i was thinkin of how things would be for him) i've never had a family so family values are summit i dont have first hand experience with ....but even i think, to come between one has gotta be wrong don't it?
I have ended things just last night but i keep thinkin ...was i hasty...the guy wanted to keep goin discreetly (sp) but i sooooo think its got only hurt in store.....i feel shit atm ...
Anyhoo thats what i did in that situation was i wrong..would you play it differently?