We had a date....what next?

[Mark88]

So, I went on this date with a cute guy (very cute) we talked, had a few drinks and nothing felt awkward.
We texted about a week before we met, and a few days after we still texted.

But, im new to dating (I never dated before I was 27) so I don't know how to flirt, if he was flirting or anything. He kept touching my arm, was this flirting?
Im also very shy, so I don't know if it came across as if I didn't like him or want to be there.

I asked him out again and he said sure, I asked him a few days later when he was free and he said he was feeling pretty ill and he'll get back to me.
We haven't really texted much, I asked how he was and he just said hes getting better and that was it.

Its kinda bugging me, because this was the first guy I went on a date with where I didn't see his dick before meeting (I never ask, I just get sent them) and the first guy who didn't talk about sex. It was nice, hes different.


Should I ask him again, I don't wanna come on too hard/annoying.
How long should you wait till a next date, 1, maybe 2 weeks?