07-21-2016, 12:31 PM
loverboy88 Wrote:We had a few text exchanges this morning, just posting it to see what you can gather, I initiated the contact to give him an update about my moms cancer, after we discuss this the conversation is as follows:
Me: are you still hurt/sad about everything that happened between us
Him: Yeah I really wish in them 4 years that you can change but yeah
Me: I did believe I had gotten much better the last 2 years, but I really needed you to leave me this time to really see what I was doing.
Him: Yeah even the last 2 years you where still rocky too I just , hope that you can see what happened but yeah how's work
Me: I know exactly what happened, I'm a man. I can admit I f###ed up. I never wanted to loose you and this will be the biggest regret of my life
Him: Oh ! How's work
Me: work is ok, and for you ?
Him: Work is crazy
Me: sorry to hear that, have you talked to any guys you like ?
Him: Not really you ?
Me: no I haven't
Him: Really
Me: Can I just ask you.. honestly. do you ever think you could give me another chance to be the man you deserve to have ?
Him (2 hours later): How's work going
What could be the reason he is avoiding answering that question? Is it still too soon to be asking that now? And what is the best advice you could give me to follow at this point to maybe someday still have a chance to fix things here, if there even is a chance...
Just re-read this exchange and everything you need to know about the relationship you have is right there.
It is clear it is over. You can just be friends now.