08-23-2016, 10:54 PM
Good evening guys,
My name is Nikos and I m Greek living in London for 2 years now. Everything is ok in my life - job, friends, family etc - is just my personal life that is kind of an issue the last 2 years. I am a person that I love being in a relationship and I m trying to find a guy in London last 2 years maily from online applications such as tinder. The majority of my dates are unsuccessful because something is going wrong - I m not their type or they are not my type either cause you know is completely different when u met them face to face. But even if some dates are very succesful and seems to me that i have real chemistry, that doesnt last for a while. People are not being honest nowadays or do not make an effort to accept "imperfections" and they just simply disappear after a couple of dates. I have really tried everything: not being so "pushy" with them since they are being scared, going with the flow and see what happens, saying from the very beginning that I m looking for a relationship or even trying to be friends with them with the hope this will turn into something serious. Unfortunately nothing has worked out so far. Is it something that I m doing wrong or ALL of them are just weirdos? I m very frustrated and I m looking to find other ways on meting gay people as well. It cant be only through tinder etc? By the way I do not have so many gay friends to go out all the time to gay bars etc. Do you have any advice to give me?
Thank you very much for your time!
Nikos ��
My name is Nikos and I m Greek living in London for 2 years now. Everything is ok in my life - job, friends, family etc - is just my personal life that is kind of an issue the last 2 years. I am a person that I love being in a relationship and I m trying to find a guy in London last 2 years maily from online applications such as tinder. The majority of my dates are unsuccessful because something is going wrong - I m not their type or they are not my type either cause you know is completely different when u met them face to face. But even if some dates are very succesful and seems to me that i have real chemistry, that doesnt last for a while. People are not being honest nowadays or do not make an effort to accept "imperfections" and they just simply disappear after a couple of dates. I have really tried everything: not being so "pushy" with them since they are being scared, going with the flow and see what happens, saying from the very beginning that I m looking for a relationship or even trying to be friends with them with the hope this will turn into something serious. Unfortunately nothing has worked out so far. Is it something that I m doing wrong or ALL of them are just weirdos? I m very frustrated and I m looking to find other ways on meting gay people as well. It cant be only through tinder etc? By the way I do not have so many gay friends to go out all the time to gay bars etc. Do you have any advice to give me?
Thank you very much for your time!
Nikos ��
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