Is it okay to NEVER come out?

[eastofeden]

Wow - Lots of names I haven't see in years in this thread.

I don't think it matters really what any of us decide to do. Usually people have to ask me - it is a non issue for me and nothing I really want to discuss with anyone - I wouldn't even know what to say. Imagine someone who is straight announcing it to me - an uncomfortable moment because again I wouldn't know what to say. 

I guess I could use some of the lines that straight people use 

That's cool - I knew another straight person once

My brother is straight.

I just LUV straight people

Some of my best friends are straight

I don't have a problem with straight people

I do introduce people to my husband when they are meeting me.  If they have a problem with it - they never say anything. I guess they might figure out I am gay when they know I have a husband.  

I can't do the Q&A thing or the "Magical Gay Man" thing