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When a friend likes you more than you do
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It happened to me both ways.
Friends, that I would consider my best friend, but for who I've only played a minor role. Or other way round, one of my friends, considers me as close as a family member, which is really not what I feel for her. She would say "I love you" (there's a German equivalent that is not used for romantic relationships) and send me hearts on FB, and I feel bad for not responding the same way, but I just don't feel more for her than a pretty good friend, however not my best friend.

Rightnow I don't have a best friend, I really miss that feeling, but it seems like the people I once considered best friends have moved on, got partners, and thus naturally friends become less important. Or let's put it this way, when I know someone has a partner, I'm more likely to "not bother" them.

I mean it's natural, not everyone can like each other equally strong. Many friendships are so uneven that A might mean the world for B, but B is only a remote acquaintance for A....

What do you think about that? Any experience? When should one stop consider someone a close friend?
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Messages In This Thread
When a friend likes you more than you do - by Aquarius - 09-26-2016, 06:31 PM
When a friend likes you more than you do - by knickerbuck - 09-26-2016, 06:36 PM
When a friend likes you more than you do - by Sylph - 09-26-2016, 10:45 PM
When a friend likes you more than you do - by knickerbuck - 09-28-2016, 06:45 AM
When a friend likes you more than you do - by knickerbuck - 09-28-2016, 06:45 AM
When a friend likes you more than you do - by TwisttheLeaf - 09-28-2016, 07:35 AM

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