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Am I considered to be attractive?
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Hello,

I shall be honest with you. It has has become a great struggle for me to make use of apps like Tindr and Grindr just because I am barely getting matches/attention. Most people around me tell me that they think I'm beautiful, handsome/goodlooking and I am a type of person that does attach a significant amount of value to the way I'm looking.

I'm realizing my insecurity increases as I use these apps, even if it's solely used for 'superficial reasons' in which you would like to get some attention or a nice conversation with goodlooking/interesting individuals. It simply doesn't happen. Other gay people around me they use it and they mentioned it can be an ego-booster. But for me, my self-worth was actually influenced by this and I'd never imagine it would.

I've been single since March this year (had my first relationship at 25 and it wasn't a good one/ I'm 26 now) and up until now I haven't done anything when it comes to men (despite using apps, going out pretty much etc). I'm feeling lonely and not wanted since I've recently also been rejected by someone of whom I thought he wanted me as well. Our friendship was quickly dissolved after that and it makes it even worse. Sometimes I can be confident in the way I look, but deep down I'm constantly questioning things I maybe shouldn't.

The reactions I get from around me is that I'm too picky and too reserved when it comes to men. I know this attitude is actually a result of those rejections I've had before, and the confirmation that never happened in which someone was truly interested in me. But it may be because they just don't want to hurt my feelings.

I'm perhaps a more slightly feminine looking guy and I prefer the somewhat more masculine men (not the macho types) and you know how that goes. 90% of the handsome masculine men are searching for the exact same thing. (I thought we weren't all monolithic?)

I will post some pics here and I would like you to give your honest opinion about my looks, about how I may be perceived inside your mind. And I would prefer the unfiltered truth. Am I aiming too much out of my league? (even though some of you may think such a thing doesn't exist?) I'd rather have honesty over silence.

Thanks for reading Smile

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Am I considered to be attractive? - by SirGreendown - 10-28-2016, 02:53 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by hasher22 - 11-03-2016, 03:37 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by drobs - 11-06-2016, 10:20 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Ibex - 11-06-2016, 02:01 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gemini - 11-06-2016, 02:54 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Camfer - 11-06-2016, 04:39 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gregoryagogo - 11-06-2016, 05:11 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Tyrell - 11-06-2016, 06:41 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by SilverBullet - 11-06-2016, 06:54 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gregoryagogo - 11-06-2016, 07:04 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by himself - 11-06-2016, 08:36 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by drobs - 11-06-2016, 08:37 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Ibex - 11-06-2016, 09:05 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by TwisttheLeaf - 11-06-2016, 09:21 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by princealbertofb - 11-06-2016, 10:41 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by princealbertofb - 11-06-2016, 10:49 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by JohnMusic - 11-07-2016, 12:45 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gregoryagogo - 11-07-2016, 01:25 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gregoryagogo - 11-07-2016, 01:42 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by princealbertofb - 11-07-2016, 02:57 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Gregoryagogo - 11-07-2016, 03:03 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by SilverBullet - 11-07-2016, 03:09 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by SilverBullet - 11-07-2016, 03:34 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by LJay - 11-07-2016, 03:43 AM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by JosefOlive15 - 11-14-2016, 07:38 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by Shawn - 11-14-2016, 10:30 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by matty7 - 11-15-2016, 04:06 PM
Am I considered to be attractive? - by deephiance - 11-20-2016, 02:11 AM

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