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I don't know what to do...
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I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now and we get along really well. We met online and instantly hit it off and by time we met each other we knew we wanted to go into a relationship with each other.
We are both at university and want to move in together after we graduate (i'm 2nd year and he is 3rd year)

Not long into the relationship I found out he still had the app we met on and was all these guys. The messages would say things like 'my boyfriend is not as hot as you' and 'My boyfriend does not turn me on as much as you'
This upset me for obvious reasons, but I was more hurt about the fact that he mentioned me to almost all the guys he spoke too.
Not long after I found this out he told me that he also had a separate Skype account that we would use to video call some of these guys. Because we are in a long distance relationship we used to Skype every night before we went to bed, even if it was for 10 minutes just to say goodnight, so he would say goodnight to me and then sign into his other account and Skype these other guys.
After all of this I still managed to forgive him and move on because it was early days in the relationship and our feelings for each other were still new.

Fast forward to a few months after our year anniversary he goes out for his 21st birthday and kisses one of his friends. He is still in the closet at university (his family and friends at home know) and he said it was a heat of the moment thing and that he was drunk and that it did not mean anything. He was very apologetic about this and told me that I was being crazy when I said I was not happy with it.

We are coming up to our two year anniversary and about to spend our second Christmas together, and all though everything is going well I still can't help but feel that their is a reason he is not telling his friends at university about me, especially since he was so eager and happy to tell everybody else.

I want to know if I am being over dramatic and over thinking everything, I want the relationship to work and I am trying everything I can to make it work. But I can't help but feel like he does not have the same feelings for the relationship as I do.
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