10-30-2016, 02:58 AM
Soooo I feel like the biggest A-hole on the planet.
We were supposed to go to a hotel somewhere 2 hrs from here for the weekend. For 2 yrs we didn't do sh!t except for like 3 times clubbing and once every 2 months out for dinner.
When he noticed I was serious about moving out he suddenly changed into the "perfect" boyfriend.
He started to plan everyday for both of us to enjoy, telling me that I look good etc... I didn't get a compliment from him like a year and a half. It was a lot to take in this week. But then he suggested to go to a hotel, where he and his ex went. And for me that was a total turn off!
Me: really? Millions of hotels and that's the one you want us to go to? You could'nt find one where you haven't been to with your ex?
Him: I don't see the problem?
Me: offcourse you don't!
Him: god, your are the most difficult person I've met!
I know that it might come off childish but the reason I refuse that hotel is because in the past he already compared me with his exes, and I'll do anything in my power to avoid that from happening again!
I tried to explain to him that as his partner I deserve better than to go to that hotel. But with no luck. I even told him that I wouldn't mind if it were the second time.
Iasked him what did you tell your sister? He said,
He called his sister and said that it's not happening (she was supposed to take care of this zoo-house while we were away) but instead to tell her that something came up or whatever, he tells her that I ruined the weekend because I didn't wanna go to where he and his ex went. She told him "he is being childish"
Me: Oh is that so?
Him: yes and she is spot on!
I called her and explained her what I said above. And she said
Sister: I'm sorry I said that, I only heard his side of the story and judged you when obviously now hearing your side and I'm thinking what the hell is wrong with my brother? I didn't know it was your first time weekend away. I honestly wouldn't like it either.
So that pissed him off. He grabbed his keys and left. 5hrs later, it was 2AM he comes back home, I ask him where did you go?
Him: None of your bussiness!
Me: Ok, you're right. I simply hope you enjoyed it as much as I did.
I grabbed my phone and I googled gay chats. Went to pictures and told him, so you know why I wont be up in your bussiness. And showed him a picture of chat messages. And he got mad saying I knew you were chatting this whole time with someone!
He was talking about gayspeak. He thinks its somekind of dating app. And then I googled a goodlooking guy and told him "this is my date tomorrow, incase you'd worry about me" he kept quiet and then he got tears in his eyes.... Really??? I have made it all up but he really disappeared for 5 hrs and he is the one crying...?
To make matters worse I told him, go find another victim to cry to... and he went to bed.
Ughh I don't know what came over me to behave this way but I'm so tired of taking crap from him.
We were supposed to go to a hotel somewhere 2 hrs from here for the weekend. For 2 yrs we didn't do sh!t except for like 3 times clubbing and once every 2 months out for dinner.
When he noticed I was serious about moving out he suddenly changed into the "perfect" boyfriend.
He started to plan everyday for both of us to enjoy, telling me that I look good etc... I didn't get a compliment from him like a year and a half. It was a lot to take in this week. But then he suggested to go to a hotel, where he and his ex went. And for me that was a total turn off!
Me: really? Millions of hotels and that's the one you want us to go to? You could'nt find one where you haven't been to with your ex?
Him: I don't see the problem?
Me: offcourse you don't!
Him: god, your are the most difficult person I've met!
I know that it might come off childish but the reason I refuse that hotel is because in the past he already compared me with his exes, and I'll do anything in my power to avoid that from happening again!
I tried to explain to him that as his partner I deserve better than to go to that hotel. But with no luck. I even told him that I wouldn't mind if it were the second time.
Iasked him what did you tell your sister? He said,
He called his sister and said that it's not happening (she was supposed to take care of this zoo-house while we were away) but instead to tell her that something came up or whatever, he tells her that I ruined the weekend because I didn't wanna go to where he and his ex went. She told him "he is being childish"
Me: Oh is that so?
Him: yes and she is spot on!
I called her and explained her what I said above. And she said
Sister: I'm sorry I said that, I only heard his side of the story and judged you when obviously now hearing your side and I'm thinking what the hell is wrong with my brother? I didn't know it was your first time weekend away. I honestly wouldn't like it either.
So that pissed him off. He grabbed his keys and left. 5hrs later, it was 2AM he comes back home, I ask him where did you go?
Him: None of your bussiness!
Me: Ok, you're right. I simply hope you enjoyed it as much as I did.
I grabbed my phone and I googled gay chats. Went to pictures and told him, so you know why I wont be up in your bussiness. And showed him a picture of chat messages. And he got mad saying I knew you were chatting this whole time with someone!
He was talking about gayspeak. He thinks its somekind of dating app. And then I googled a goodlooking guy and told him "this is my date tomorrow, incase you'd worry about me" he kept quiet and then he got tears in his eyes.... Really??? I have made it all up but he really disappeared for 5 hrs and he is the one crying...?
To make matters worse I told him, go find another victim to cry to... and he went to bed.
Ughh I don't know what came over me to behave this way but I'm so tired of taking crap from him.
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