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Wanting the guys we know are bad for us
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This is more of a rhetorical rant than anything but it's something I'm currently going through and it's always fun to see what answers, comments and follow up questions you guys come up.

The main question: "Why do we always seem to want (and sometimes fall in love with) the guys that don't want us? The guys that would rather lie than tell the truth. The guys that would rather sleep around instead of settling with one guy. The guys that repeatedly toy with our feelings and emotions and accept no responsibility or show any remorse for doing so.
Why do we seem to always fall for the assholes/players/charmers in life? What makes them so damn desirable and so freaking difficult to let go, move on from and forget?

It's almost maddening. We spend so much time thinking about them, trying to convince them that we are worth it. They keep us from moving on, keep us wrapped into this mindset of "why don't they appreciate me" and ultimately keep us from meeting better guys that have everything we do actually desire. Those guys that will treat us with the respect and compassion we seek.

There's my psychological, philosophical rant. Have a good rest of the weekend guys!
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Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by pman117 - 05-28-2017, 09:58 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Cuddly - 05-28-2017, 10:44 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Darius - 05-29-2017, 04:27 AM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by sillyboy86 - 05-29-2017, 12:31 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by MHJG - 05-29-2017, 12:50 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Confuzzled4 - 05-29-2017, 10:20 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Neon101 - 06-13-2017, 11:15 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Neon101 - 06-14-2017, 11:33 AM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Neon101 - 06-14-2017, 01:40 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Matt608 - 06-14-2017, 01:52 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Pyromancer - 06-14-2017, 03:29 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Darius - 06-14-2017, 03:37 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by princealbertofb - 06-15-2017, 04:01 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Sherlock - 06-25-2017, 11:08 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Pyromancer - 06-26-2017, 07:59 PM
Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Bowyn Aerrow - 06-26-2017, 09:52 PM
RE: Wanting the guys we know are bad for us - by Jimmy5635 - 06-01-2020, 07:46 AM

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