Would You Date A Guy Who Has A Kid?

[meridannight]

You're talking about my husband...him not wanting me on this site was another red flag that I shouldn't have ignored, he was trying to isolate me. He wanted a child badly...until he got one...then, he resented the time and attention I gave her. He became emotionally and then physically abusive and we separated. I was awarded full physical custody of our daughter...he was granted supervised visitation, but fucked it up royally, so now has no access to her. The court ordered him to do certain things before he can reapply for visitation, but he hasn't bothered. So my daughter and I are currently living a peaceful life and things are much better...it got pretty bad at times, but it was all worth it because it gave me my daughter.

BTW, you have a good memory, that was around 2 years ago when I left!

Uh, sorry to hear about that. I was hoping it worked out for you with him. Hopefully you'll find a more compatible partner. I'm sure you think it's worth it because you got a daughter, but still, it sucks when people that are supposed to be there for you turn out to be something else instead.

Has it really been 2 years since you last were on this site? Feels a lot less than that to me.


Great to see you again, by the way.