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Annoyance...
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InBetweenDreams,,, I think you are right in your assumption that he is probably a "hoarder". He buys "almost worthless" stuff and instead of fixing this stuff and using it or selling it,, he just keeps it.. The test to find out if he is a true hoarder is to ask him if you can have or buy one of his worthless old electronic devices,, if he suddenly gets quiet and doesn't let you have it (or buy it),, then he's a hoarder... Hoarders will refuse to give up any of their treasures,, not matter how worthless they are..

You are also right in thinking that he doesn't have the will to change the things that are bothering him or slowing his progression in life (his job).

His parents are also playing the role as his security blanket,, and as long as he is comfortable with this present arrangement,,, he well stay where he is...

I personally know & knew hoarders and also folks who don't have any appetite for advancing themselves... They can be wonderful people who you enjoy spending time with and even grow feelings for,,, but changing them isn't something I would suggest trying to tackle... The best thing is to remain friends and see if they can change on their own...

Even great guys can come with baggage that is too difficult to deal with..

You have done so well in getting your life on the right track.. Keep up the good work...

I wish you the best of luck,

Sin-cerely,
Jim
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Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-18-2021, 04:11 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by calgor - 09-18-2021, 05:49 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-18-2021, 10:23 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by eastofeden - 09-18-2021, 10:41 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by calgor - 09-18-2021, 11:08 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-19-2021, 12:26 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by Bhp91126 - 09-19-2021, 01:26 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-19-2021, 02:51 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by calgor - 09-19-2021, 04:36 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-19-2021, 05:28 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by calgor - 09-19-2021, 08:02 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-20-2021, 12:18 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by eastofeden - 09-24-2021, 10:42 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-25-2021, 03:18 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by artyboy - 09-26-2021, 04:10 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-26-2021, 04:23 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by Bookworm - 09-26-2021, 07:23 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by Rawr - 09-26-2021, 10:37 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 09-26-2021, 11:42 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 10-07-2021, 12:57 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by jimcrackcorn - 10-08-2021, 12:30 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 10-08-2021, 12:59 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by Rawr - 10-10-2021, 07:33 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 11-10-2021, 03:05 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by Bhp91126 - 11-10-2021, 03:54 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by ChadCoxRox - 11-10-2021, 03:55 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 11-10-2021, 05:56 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by ChadCoxRox - 11-11-2021, 12:43 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 01-17-2022, 04:00 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by ChadCoxRox - 01-17-2022, 04:53 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 01-17-2022, 05:24 AM
RE: Annoyance... - by ChadCoxRox - 01-17-2022, 04:25 PM
RE: Annoyance... - by InbetweenDreams - 01-17-2022, 05:30 PM

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