Top and bottom problem, really need advice

[marshlander]

... Knowing the mental gymnastics I went through to keep myself in denial (and I wasn't doing that) it boggles my mind how he can think of himself as straight and still regularly have sex with men...

It is amazing how we can deceive ourselves if we need to.

A woman could never do that because she can never have the necessary experience to know.

Oh, don't be so dismissive, Colin If a woman truly loves her man she'll make an effort - as long as she's not dealing with sexual hangups of her own.

In truth, men also respond differently from each other. It's not always a case of just rub it and cum. If you have found a partner who instinctively knows which of your buttons to press you are lucky. For many of us it takes a lot of practice - and I, for one, intend to keep on practising