few words about myself and my companion

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I am a Frenchman living in Tamil Nadu, South India since nearly four decades. I love this country and its people and its menmile:....John is my Companion. He is 28 and I am 68...big age gap! yes. It sometimes is the reason of frictions. But, we quickly forget those frictions as we love each others very much. John and I live happily together since now 4 years and I wish it lasts till my last moments.
Considering the Indian culture, boys and girls can do whatever the want before their mariage provided they are discreet and...get married to the girl or boy of his/her parents would have selected. Homosexuality as well as sexuality is something that generally speaking, no one in India talks about and certainly will not talk to their children about. However, once the boy has reached 25 or 30 maximum, parents will want to get married and settled. What will happen to John, my companion. His family keeps on talking to him about a girl that perfectly match their requirements (astrology, cast, skin colour, salary, etc). He keeps on pushing these proposals away saying that he will marry only when he decides. He told me he will never marry and will spend his life with me ever...It is really tough on me as I have been let down two times with two Idian men who after spending 10 years with me got married and dropped me and ran away...