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Being a gay couple with children
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I mentioned in a recent post that I'm much more happy these days and my life is finally on the right tracks although I still have some issues to resolve.

One of them is the subject of children.

Before I came out last year I was being asked every few weeks by my dad when I was going to supply grandchildren.

At the point I came out I had resolved in my head that I would never have any. I was gay and the whole pregnancy thing just doesn't work between two guys. (And we've tried! No matter how hard I try, I've still not got Paul pregnant yet)

Seriously, since then I've had feelings that I want kids. I'm trying to sort out in my head whether that is a hang over from past pressure, or a genuine desire.

Obviously, I don't want to go down the adoption or surrogate mother route unless I'm absolutely sure. It would be hellishly unfair on the child(ren) if I got it wrong.

I do get broody sometimes. I look at the pride that parents have in their kids and think what a wonderful thing it is to guide and nurture young lives into the world. On the other hand, sometimes I don't feel that way at all. I don't particularly feel any dislike. Just that I feel I slip into neutral.

Does anyone have any ideas? How do I go about sorting that out in my head?
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Messages In This Thread
Being a gay couple with children - by colinmackay - 09-28-2010, 12:13 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by Ultra - 09-28-2010, 01:10 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by fenris - 09-28-2010, 01:15 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by posterpicture - 09-28-2010, 02:31 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by fredv3b - 09-28-2010, 06:43 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by marshlander - 09-28-2010, 11:46 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by peterinmalaga - 09-28-2010, 06:45 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by SlipknotRlZZ - 09-28-2010, 07:39 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by fenris - 09-28-2010, 08:20 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Ultra - 09-28-2010, 11:57 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Genersis - 09-29-2010, 12:06 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by Ultra - 09-29-2010, 12:16 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by princealbertofb - 09-29-2010, 12:54 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by colinmackay - 09-29-2010, 08:42 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by colinmackay - 09-29-2010, 08:45 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by posterpicture - 09-29-2010, 08:47 AM
Being a gay couple with children - by SlipknotRlZZ - 09-29-2010, 04:13 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Ultra - 09-29-2010, 05:28 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by colinmackay - 09-29-2010, 10:52 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Lilmy87 - 10-01-2010, 07:35 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by princealbertofb - 10-29-2010, 09:34 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Genersis - 10-29-2010, 09:54 PM
Being a gay couple with children - by Vikta - 10-29-2010, 10:25 PM

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