Small penis - Low self esteem

[princealbertofb]

I'd say that a lot of the advice has been covered. You seem to be in the average sized category of penis and anything much bigger (by 4 inches) could be a discomfort. If you are uncomfortable accomodating his penis, then you need to find solutions (I'm sure you've already worked it out). If he was uncomfortable with your penis, then he'd probably have left you already. Not all gays are size queens, and some of us (I'm sure) are quite happy with what we've got, because there is so much more to a relationship than the size of both guys' penises.

I would suggest a good talk with him, asking whether he thinks he would need to try something bigger, in which case you can always offer to get a dildo that is bigger than your own appendage. Toys are precisely for that sort of problem, I'd say.
Somehow it doesn't seem to be a problem for him and on the offering side, I'm sure there is more to your touch, and kisses and the way you love your man and make love to him than the size of your penis. What you really ought to go from is... ok, here's what we've got and here's what we can do with what we've got. Look at all the ways you can keep him happy and discuss all the ways in which he can make you happy. It really is the discussion that will make you go further.
I know it's not always easy to discuss sex matters frankly with someone, even someone as close as a boyfriend, but maybe you could enter the conversation in a humorous mode?
So you've told us a few of your insecurities here, but what you haven't told us is how he makes YOU feel with what he's got? Are YOU happy with the way your sex life is? Is it only to do with penis size?