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[longislandguy]

The having children option will only disappear if your life takes on another direction... I believe that you could have children if you had the right partner (or even just to bring up on your own, if you have that sort of courage) but I still think you'd be happier being honest with yourself and with any girl that you date. Modern women don't accept being cheated on, unless they are very understanding.

Yes, honesty would be the best way to go. I would prefer men over women most of the time, probably all of the time. I think I am struggling over the label of either gay or straight.

I know I like men, but I don't know how I feel about women.