What do you guys do when your boyfriend is upset with you?

[outandabout]

So I was wrapping up work and I called my bf to see if he wanted to hang out and he sounded very distant. I kept asking what was wrong and he was upset at me for a tiny little thing I forgot to do. It was as simple as calling someone up on the phone and making arrangements for something. I did that immediately but he still said he didn't want to hang out. Without going into too much detail, this thing that I had to arrange was actually a favor for him (letting his friend borrow my car). We have a tough relationship because he lives an hour+ away from me and our work schedules collide with each other like crazy so usually one of us has to sacrifice something (e.g., sleep) to hang out. But we make it work.

In addition, I have to fly to the other side of the country for work on Wednesday and will be away for a week. I can't even remember the last time I was away from him for more than 7 days (I do travel for work but it's usually no more than 5 days and it's not that often). Now he's saying that I "don't have to" come over to visit tomorrow, which means I'd be away from him until at least next Wednesday. The last time I saw him was Saturday. I really wanted to see him again before my long trip (to me, this is a long business trip) and I hate having to leave the state with him being upset at me.

What would you do in this situation?