10-26-2010, 02:21 AM
So what now?
I went to a nude beach in New Jersey over Labor Day Weekend for my birthday. I ended up getting arrested for public lewdness after getting caught with another man behind the dunes.
Looking back on it, I don't know why I did such a stupid thing. I'm usually good with making decisions regarding legal matters. I don't drink and drive, and I certainly don't do drugs or anything else. I've never been in any trouble with the law before.
The whole thing has been a fiasco. Initially I was lied to by the arresting officer who said I would not be arrested if I could show an ID. I showed my ID and was arrested anyway. Then on the court date the other guy showed up with his wife and their baby and he denied that it happened, so now I have to go back again. The deal was that if I pled guilty the charge would be downgraded to disorderly conduct. But I will have a criminal record.
I feel like I ruined my life and the other guy's life too. I initiated the conversation but he initiated the sexual contact. I'm hoping that the judge will expunge my record and I can just pay a fine. After all I wasn't hurting anybody, but apparently the straight world thinks a blowjob out of view heinous crime.
I feel like trash. I feel like killing myself. I'm afraid my friends won't like me anymore if they find out. What do I do? Court was an awful experience. Sitting there in the courtroom with all those crackheads and drunk drivers.
I went to a nude beach in New Jersey over Labor Day Weekend for my birthday. I ended up getting arrested for public lewdness after getting caught with another man behind the dunes.
Looking back on it, I don't know why I did such a stupid thing. I'm usually good with making decisions regarding legal matters. I don't drink and drive, and I certainly don't do drugs or anything else. I've never been in any trouble with the law before.
The whole thing has been a fiasco. Initially I was lied to by the arresting officer who said I would not be arrested if I could show an ID. I showed my ID and was arrested anyway. Then on the court date the other guy showed up with his wife and their baby and he denied that it happened, so now I have to go back again. The deal was that if I pled guilty the charge would be downgraded to disorderly conduct. But I will have a criminal record.
I feel like I ruined my life and the other guy's life too. I initiated the conversation but he initiated the sexual contact. I'm hoping that the judge will expunge my record and I can just pay a fine. After all I wasn't hurting anybody, but apparently the straight world thinks a blowjob out of view heinous crime.
I feel like trash. I feel like killing myself. I'm afraid my friends won't like me anymore if they find out. What do I do? Court was an awful experience. Sitting there in the courtroom with all those crackheads and drunk drivers.