My bf is mad at me for I stopped by to their house unannounced?

[goodboy15]

Wow, that sounds really tough. I could see how something similar might happen to me. :redface: But, as an outsider, I think if you are strong enough to take a break from him, I'd definitely do it. You sound like me, in the way that once every two weeks is just not enough, and you want to be treated with respect and affection. Unfortunately you've fallen for this guy so you're making excuses for his behavior. From what you've written, you do not seem to be at fault for most of this stuff.

If it really is only once every two weeks, then have you guys only hung out about 4 or 5 times? If you haven't become too attached, I would say it's best to take a break from him and see how he reacts. There ARE guys out there who will want to hang out with you more and initiate it too. And send you sweet messages. That comment he told you on thanksgiving was pretty brutal and rude.

You think I'm making excuses for his behavior? I do not know. Maybe. I keep thinking about me always sending him messages asking when I can see him, or text me when you get home before, were kind of bad, like smothering? or what he calls them DRAMA. But I've changed since I noticed that he barely speaks to me. I would only text him at night whenever I think he's home. I'd do that so he won't think I'm a nagger or something.

Well, before, we would hang once a week, then lately, just once in two weeks. That's how busy he is. I'm attached to him. So I was really wondering, if there's still a way to not end this case.