For the elder statesmen ;)

[fredv3b]

I think that alot of people both gay and straight who prefer that other people adhere to traditional male and female ROLES should consider this...if you insist that other people behave in a TRADITIONAL manner...and you are gay...you need to rethink this because if you have that POV you have to understand that the people who oppress you as a gay person use the same reasoning. You are a threat to their "traditional" comfort zone just for being who you are. If that kind of thinking has enhanced your own life...being the object of scorn...then by all means pass it along

I prefer but I certainly don't insist.